i was talking to this girl on myspace. and she was in my class at school but never really looked at me and she said why isnt your pic up. i said i dont want it to be. she said well i want to see if your hot or not. i said im worried that if i put it up youll never go out with me beacase im ok looking.
she said well im not gonna go out with someone if they r ugly
that is jsut the bare truth,sorry
but if u put a pic on thr web than i can be the judge
2007-07-03 17:21:29 · 29 answers · asked by Nick123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like she wouldn't be worth your time anyway. Find someone new.
2007-07-03 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by ღღღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The typical answer is to say that if someone is going to judge you by how you look then they aren't worthwhile. Although this may be true; it's not always realistic. People are shallow. However, you should have confidence in yourself. Don't be afraid of what she thinks about how you look. If she doesn't like you, someone else will. There will always be another girl. (and I mean that in a realistic way not in a in every cartoon about self worth way) Although, you should think more highly of yourself. Now if you don't want your picture for other reasons then don't put it on myspace just for her.
2007-07-04 00:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Dreams♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do have considerations; some are that way. I had a problem with a woman I'd been communicating with for some time, then I told her I was 400 pounds and she was upset, she felt I should have told her before I started talking to her. Maybe she was right, but the fact is, appearance, beauty, handsomness and such characteristics are important to a lot of people.
2007-07-04 00:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put it up only if you want to. She will eventually see you anyway. Why wait to find out if she will be interested? Find out now. If she is that superficial, you did not need her anyway. She is just an immature person, with no true values. Who does she think she is,saying that she will judge you? What an idiot!!!
On second thought just tell her that you didn't think that she was that hot anyway, and move on.
2007-07-04 00:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know what you are getting to. If doesn't like you for who you are and just your looks I don't think it is worth going out with that type of girl!! You deserve better then that. There are a lot of girls that would go out with you not just for yours looks but for your personality as well!!
I hope this was the answer you were looking for!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-07-04 00:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by soccertoric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to especially when that someone wants to judge you. You don't have to do what she tells you to. YOU know if you're hot or not. She doesn't have to see it for herself. Find someone else out of myspace to go out with. You'll have more fun.
2007-07-04 00:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Hani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her .. if she didn't pay attention to you at school, chances are she won't on my space either..
Its easy to chat on line but sometimes we can get too involved with only a fantasy..
I say find someone who cares about you for who you are not how you look.. remember its what is inside a person that counts and she sounds vain..
Good Luck!
2007-07-04 00:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rebel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really know what the question is but why would you want to date someone who is like that anyways try talking to someone in person and then you don't have to worry about what they would think about you when they actually see you good luck though
2007-07-04 00:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dominoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes just interested in looks shes not worth your time dude. Find a girl who actually cares about you not what you look like.
2007-07-04 00:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but honestly if thats all she cares about, then she sounds like a b****. if she actually has a brain and is nicer than that, then just show a really good picture of you. i mean you cant change the way you look
if she was in your class and never noticed you...do you honestly think she really cares? ouch, that sounded harsh. sorry
OKAY NOW YOUR GETTING ON MY NERVES!!! PLEASE STOP BOTHERING US WITH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE!!! I ALREADY ANSWERED!! AND MY ANSWERS NOT CHANGING
2007-07-04 00:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by *Forget me not* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is just going by looks you dont need to be with her find someone that likes you youre personality not youre looks and dont put youre pic. on their
2007-07-04 00:26:49 · answer #11 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋