i'm a christian and if you are too help answer this question i'm just curios but is it bad to have sex before your married and will you go to hell?
2007-07-03 16:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never had sex and wont 4 long long time just wondering from a tv show degrassi i'm only 12 any way
2007-07-03 16:59:36 · update #1
Someone said this is "adultry". I hardly think so. There are many cases in the Bible that men laid with their sisters or wife's sisters. Bull on that. Sex before marraige, who's to say who is one to sanctifiy marraige in those days. That is the old days; not now.
If you are saved, no matter your sins, you will go to heven. You think everyone who has premarital sex is condemmed to hell? Our time is now, not the time of the idotits who wrote the Bible. They wrote it for themselves and their beliefs.
Be a good person and do the right thing. If you do, you will be saved. Beleive in God and Jesus and nothing that any other person says to you; you are granted salvation.
2007-07-03 17:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not go to hell if you have sex before marriage. God is forgiving of our sins, however it is best for you to wait until you are more mature. 12 years old is too young to have sex. Please wait until you are at least old enough to drive. Right now you are very curious and do not have the experience to know all the risks involved in having sexual relations. Please consult your teachers or parents if you have questions about sex and religion.
2007-07-03 17:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by sparkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yes it is a sin to have sex before marriage usually your supposed to wait until AFTER you get married.
But honestly nobody cept God can tell you weather you would go to hell for that or not.
2007-07-03 16:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know what your particular faith says about sex before marriage, talk to your minister and tell them what you're going through...they're human too. It's definitely worth waiting for the right person, regardless of the how long you have to wait.
2007-07-03 17:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex is created for those married only. Pray for an answer if you will go to hell or not. Can't help you on that one.
2007-07-03 16:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is against one of the commandments, u shall not commit adultery, becuause according to god it is only reserved for married couples, but i can asure u, you won't go to hell. just repent of ur sins, and he will forgive u, it's just as bad as any other sin, member, god is a loving god, if u don't believe me go read in luther's small catecism about adultery~
2007-07-03 16:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by b-ball gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad. However it could be something you believe strongly against...sorry if i worded that weird. Hold out until you find someone who is worth it and who loves you unconditionally. Most important...find someone who respects what you want...even if it means waiting.
2007-07-03 16:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i dont know the bible word for word but i will tell u this if it is bad and hell is the result then hell is gonna fill up fast
2007-07-03 16:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is u want go 2 hell i dont think
2007-07-03 16:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by keyana1010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, u cant disrespect god like that
2007-07-03 16:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋