my daddy does major real esate!!!we live in a 2 stories house,swimming pool,hot tub,me and my sis get watever we want and my parents own 4 houses for there kids when they get older,have a golf course at our house and etc....does that have to mean you are RICH and SPOILED cuz everyone at skool keep calling me that....i am only 11 i know i get brand clohes...i have 3 sis they ages are 18,12,6...and they think we are spoiled...we all do gymnastic!!the poiint is when u have all those thing does it have to mean you are spoiled and rich!!just wondering!!
2007-07-03 15:22:56 · 18 answers · asked by *(LoVe mAtTer)* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes you are..
2007-07-03 15:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are old enough to know what spoiled means. If not, look it up. Does the definition fit your perception of yourself? If so, then being spoiled is not good character. If not, then don't worry about what other people say about you.
I will point out that while material goods are nice to have, they will not bring you happiness nor is there any promise they will be there when you get older. Your dad is successful, and apparently he's worked very hard at it. Now its your turn. Work hard at school and get a really good education. That will carry you for all of your life, and your possessions will not.
2007-07-03 22:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey, if you use theses things to make others feel belittled around you then i'd say yes you were spoiled... you can't fault your parents for working hard to have nice things.. some parents just aren't as lucky as yours.. don't let anyone make you feel bad for what you have... as long as you don't rub it in there face or brag about what you got and someone else lacks... do you understand what i mean.. enjoy what you have because once you grow up all of theses things won't mean a thing unless there were happy memories of your childhood that goes along with them.. money nor possessions make the person who they are on the inside... and if it does then they can truly never be happy... so enjoy what you have and don't let anyone make you feel bad that you have them...just don't act like you are better because you have them... ok... it will be okay...
2007-07-11 14:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by still young 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can c ur problem. im 10 and from my point of view your family just happens 2 be very fortunate and as long u dont brag about it than it can be a good thing. Just try to give back to the community and and you'll soon find that u deserve most of it. Remember- theres a difference between being spoiled and being spoiled rotten. just live life and dont worry about it!
Have fun!
2007-07-03 22:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
umm.. i think that peole have anything they want then that does mean they are spoiled!! butt it doesn't mean that they are brats.. so don't ever let any one call u a spoiled brat cause people call me that all the time cause my family has a 5 story house and 4 other houses .. .. a indoor pool and outdorr heated pool and softball field in the back yard and i am only 13!! so we are both spoiled ..... don't feel like u are alone
2007-07-03 23:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Marissa M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. you are not spoiled. Your family is just better off then a lot of families. Be good and help other less fortunate and you won't worry about being spoiled. Helping other is a good thing.
2007-07-03 22:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by sandy j 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are not spoiled you are just loved....and you are lucky to have parents that love you and take care of you. If I could afford for my child to have those things she would, because I love her and it would make her more happy. (she loves horses)....any parent out there would agree they would give there children what makes them happy. I had some one tell me one time if a child isn't a little bit spoiled there abused. No matter how much money you make you try to give your children the things that make them happy it's just if you make more money you can give them more.
2007-07-10 09:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by pam h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister i beleive the girl above me..the one that had a 5 stories house. and we're not that rich...we live in mississippi. well anyway im gonna ask daddy to hire somebody to help me get an iphone..i just gotta get it. and now are not spoiled...i mean i think i deserve all that stuuf because i make all a. well ta ta
2007-07-05 00:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are rich, and judging by what you wrote, you might be spoiled, I say this becasue you wrote that you guys get anything you want.
2007-07-11 19:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care more about what you want and what you are able to have, then yes. BUT, if you care more about other people and their feeling, helping them and put material things last on your list as being important then, no.
2007-07-03 22:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by child of God 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you have hard working parents that want the best for their children.
2007-07-10 11:47:40 · answer #11 · answered by patriciaannbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋