from friend to more...?

Question

Ok, so i have been going out with this girl a lot recently. She has told her friends she thinks i am cute. she asks me out and i ask her out to do stuff. whenever i see her she lights up. she wears makeup, looks amazing, and smells just great. She sends me several random texts like complaining she only got 2 hours of sleep etc. In fact just yesterday the count was at 38. She asked me about my relationship status at one point. And she has hugged me on occasions. She also says how much she wants to hang out more, cook for me, and how much we have in common.

There are times when i get confused on what she feels however... Like when we saw a movie together, she sat with her arms crossed almost the entire time (so did I tho, i feel more comfortable that way). This gave me no chance to grasp her hand :( When i drop her off to her house, she doesnt hesitate to leave, she looks at me smiles a lot, and thanks me for a great time and goes.

Im not sure what to think or do.

Answer 1

Have you ever seen the movie Hitch with Will Smith? If not you should watch it. If you are that into her you need to go after her now and try to get her while you still can because honestly not trying to offend you but you are making some mistakes and she might second guess you and think you should only be friends. I mean with her texting you to tell you how she feels that shows that she is into you, her calling and asking you to go out shows shes into you and she told her friends that she thinks your are cute. She can be yours if you act quick. Pretty soon it will get to that dreaded point where she will be like, oh I like you but not that we are too good of friends... The mistakes I would say you are making is by at the movies not putting your arm around her or on her thigh(might make her umcomfortable but if she is into you it shouldn't but if you act uncomfortable she probably will get the vibe from you). and another thing would be and you know this because you said she is in no hurry to leave when you drop her off she just stands there and smiles. In Hitch, which it is true, they say when giving the first kiss you go 90% of the way and if she wants the kiss she will come the other 10%. Give her the kiss, you both will enjoy it. It actually seems like she is more into you than you are into her at least it should on her end because you are not really showing it, you can't say that because you are hanging out with her that means that you are showing her, that's not enough! Good luck

Answer 2

Have you tried just plain talking ? What I mean is telling her how you feel and asking her if she feels the same way. Tell her about your occasional confusion as a result of how she acts, but that you want to make your relationship formal--that is --be a couple exclusively.Try to have this conversation on a day when you both have had a very good time doing something together.This would create the ideal atmosphere for romantic talk and also make it easier for her to relate to you.Go for it buddy and good luck to both of you.

Answer 3

Make the first move, give her a kiss but ask if you can first, otherwise it won't go so good, and if she says no then just leave it alone, and ask for a hug, so you don't seem like your only for the juicy stuff

Answer 4

Chances are that the girl really likes you, but she may be confused to. Or she might even get a little nervous when she's around you. If you like the girl, you should let her know.

Answer 5

that's kind of confusing... umm.. no offense or anything but do you think she feels sorry for u at all for any reason?
i doubt it.
umm.. maybe she thinks ur a great guy but doesn't really want to get things 'steamy'. like, have u ever kissed her or anything.
cuz if u have then i have no clue.. but she might just like u but not want a serious relationship, u just kinda have to know her really good.. u know?

Answer 6

dude just get her into bed

Answer 7

dont worry, just give her time