ok ive wanted a dog for a very long time and ive wrote a 30 page "report" about why i should have one and i wrote a little poem thing and everything but she still said no. Ihave a grandpa who is willing to MAYBE even let me have it at his farm witch is about 5 miles from my house. my mom has pretty much said no to everything ive tried. I ABSOLUTELY GARENTEE that I will take care of it and everything so no "your not ready for a dog, or how old are you, or just accept no for an answer, that is not what i want" I have a mowing job that i make $35 a week so i can afoord food and shots when needed and vets bills so no "well theres other expences you know" answers either. My gramma that livs with my grandpa taht is ok with me getting a dog doesnt want one so thats why its a maybe answer for the dog staying at his house. Please help me.
And the dog i want is a beagle just so you know.
And i will pay for the dog to so no "well she probly says no cause shell have to buy it" answers also.
2007-07-03 14:55:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
I wan't a dog to but we can only get one if we move to a house so i know how you feel. Well just keep trying thats all i can say sory.
2007-07-10 15:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but there are several thoughts that you want to keep in mind and which your mother may have already considered in her decision to say "no".
How old are you? A beagle can live a very long life and you or someone will need to be responsible for this dog for a very long time. Young people and teenagers sometimes do not have the tenacity to take on that kind of long term responsiblity. For example, if you move away after graduation and/or go to college, who will pay for and take care of your dog?
Second, if money is a consideration, $35 a week may not be enough. You will need to consider the cost of a wll bred beagle, the cost of routine veterinarian care, the cost of toys, the cost of treats, the cost of training, the cost of boarding and ultimately, the cost of emergency surgeries,God forbidding they become necessary. There is nothing worse than having a dog with serious problems that you may not have enough money to help.
But, if you are a real dog lover, here are some ideas that may help you win your mother over, in the long run:
Consider volunteering at a local adoption clinic some weekends to work with people who help homeless dogs. It will help dogs and will put you in touch with people who are dog friendly and can mentor you.
Join a local beagle club and learn all you can about beagle ownership and responsiblity. Get as educated as you can. If you do well, you might be allowed to work with some of your local breeders and possibly even show their dogs in something called Junior Showmanship.
Start saving money and putting extra money aside for your goal of owning a dog. You may even consider adding pet sitting to your list of money making jobs.
2007-07-08 04:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by risingwolf1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah man beagles are awesome. I have one myself. Good choice. I also had to fight for my chance to own a dog for about 3 or more years. My reason was mainly allergies which are very very minor so I'm ok, but I hope you get to get a beagle. Well, you've done a good job on the report and poem...this shows that you are persistant and how much you want one. Just make sure that you really are ready for the responsibility. Maybe ask your mom the reason why she is against the idea of a dog. Beagles, are mostly scentless, and don't bark indoors (they only bay outdoors sometimes), they are very affectionate, and they learn quickly. Try making a power point of pictures and information or a movie. Good luck.
2007-07-03 15:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately life SUCKS.
I must applaud the mature way you tried to manipulate your Mother, but she is the boss.
Tiring an end-run around your mother by putting the dog at your Grandparents will only cause trouble for you as well as your Grandparents.
Try laying off the subject. Give her time and space to think about it.
Show her your level of responsibility in saving money, grades, duties around the house etc.
Always go above and beyond what is expected of you.
These things will also help you in life if you sustain be behavior even after you get what you want!
In a few months, when she asks you want you want for Christmas or your birthday, Tell her "I would still like to have a puppy, but if the time still isn't right for it, I would like to have the money so I can save it for my Puppy care fund."
And say that every time she asks you! And save the money!
She will give in!
2007-07-10 20:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by DrMichael 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems you have it all covered. You have a job to support the dog, you want to take care of it, train it, the only problem I see is your mother. However maybe she just does not LIKE dogs, they shed, often smell, make messes, and destroy things...these are real concerns for some people.
Also many people simply do not like the way dogs jump, give kisses, and so on.
Your best bet is to try for Grandpa's house...maybe once your mother knows the dog is well behaved, healthy, clean, and you are quite serious, she wont mind.
2007-07-08 14:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to your problem is finding out why your mom is saying no. To get the real answer from her, you can't just start whining about how you want a dog and ask her why she won't let you have one. You have to start a mature conversation, and ask her directly. Tell her that you know she doesn't want you to have a dog, and that you would like to know why. Let her talk and tell you all the reasons, so you can know all of them. When she's done, try to counter her reasons. If you aren't sure what you can say to address her concerns, take some time figuring it out. Then talk to her. Also, you could ask her what you need to do to proove you are responsible enough, etc. Do whatever you have to, like taking care of another pet or cleaning up, etc.
2007-07-03 16:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bambi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could always bring home an ugly boyfriend with bad breath and pimples and make them choose. Just kidding. You sound mature, so approach them on their level. Otherwise you seem to have gotten some very good advise. By the way, the squirt bottle really works on a kitten, although I'm not sure of a shelter cat as to what bad habits he/she might have picked up. By the way, female cats are much better than males, in my opinion. My cat of 17 years, raised from a kitten, never had all those bad habits that some cat owners go through because I trained her right.
2016-05-17 21:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with many of the other people posting..along with asking your mom what the real issue is and volunteering at an animal shelter, maybe your mom would let you prove that you are responsible and serious about caring for an animal by letting you foster an animal. There are many, many dogs that need a temporary home until they can find a home of their own. Check out your area for a beagle rescue.
2007-07-10 10:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by tina h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am glad you want a dog. but they do take up alot of your time. the best way to start is go to your shelter and see if you can help there. that is if you are old enough. shelters need help alot of the time, from people that do not want to be paid. learn more about a dogs life. and read up on the type of dog you want. a beagle is a wanderer. it will go with it's nose and take off. you have to be prepared for everything. read up on the type of dog that would be good for the family. there are all types. read, talk to owners of the breed, talk to a vet, and get all the information before making a choice. good luck. and be patient
2007-07-03 15:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by westfall04564 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said helping out at a shelter could help maybe show your committed to taking care of something other then yourself. Also maybe ( if you don't already) start doing things without being told. Little things like taking out the trash and such. Or just sit down with her and see how she really feels about havening a dog. Maybe its not even you wanting a dog it might be she just doesn't want one at the moment.
2007-07-10 16:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Grow up
finish your education
get a full time job
get you own place
get dog
2)Is the full $35 for the dog - other wise you may be short. For my medium size 4 yr old -
$300 fo vet annually (shots, meds etc) this will go up as she ages
$100 for one round Obedience class, $12 a week for food, extra load of laundry a week, cast of crate or pen to keep dog safe,
cost of dog bed, dog toys
3) you can't make a parent change there mind someday you'll be the adult
2007-07-10 15:43:21 · answer #11 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋