How the hell do I do it?

Question

Alright so my girlfirend might ddecide to join the army. Now the thing that bother's me the most is that at first she didn't want to so I had but that far aside a while ago but now she is starting to consider it now. Now i know its nto fair to not want her to go so thats not the question to try and convince her not to go. The only problem I really have right now is that, well, how the hell do i support her if she does choose to. I want to its just Im not sure how?

Answer 1

Support her the way you would want her to support you. tell her you love her and you will be there for her. and just be there for her, write call, be patient. she has a right to have a career and if thats what she chooses then you need to decide if you can handel her choice. If you can't you will need to let her go. Its ok to be scared and worry, but you need to focus on the present and not the what ifs. I think she has to be the one to make the decision with her future and if you want to be apart of her future you will need to be supportive of her choices, just like you would want her to do for you.

Answer 2

Three things:

First, do NOT cheat on her while she is overseas. No matter how tempting it might be (or how there is "no way she will ever find out") - remain faithful.

Second, make sure you keep in touch - writing letters, sending pictures, etc. Make sure she knows that she is still loved while she is doing what she feels is a worthy cause.

And Third - be there when she DOES return home :):)