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My wife left me months ago. And now my girlfriend after the separation has broke up with me. I thought we were both really happy and did not see her as a rebound but I guess I was wrong. It was abrupt for her to leave and I don't know why. I did everything I knew to do and if I had known she was unhappy I would have tried to change that. Now I can not seem to get over the pain. I have not hurt like this ever before and I can not function or see any hope.

2007-07-03 12:54:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

It's not that you're not good enough, it's that you're too good for them. They take what you have to offer and then move on when they might have to start giving back or when there is no more for you to give that satisfies them anymore.

2007-07-03 12:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Foegt about women, go out and enjoy life. If there is someone out there they will find you and it will be a mutual meeting. I too went through a situation. I gave up on dating and just went out and had fun. I had a motorcycle and went traveling any chance i could to see the scenery. It was the best thing i could have done. Break the routine and find something outside the norm that you enjoy. It will take time to heal, but to endulge into another relationship is only going to make it worse.
I eventually met my wife(of twelve years now and still great as ever) through a mutual friend of ours. It took several times seeing this person(my wife)before dating ever took place but the signs were there that she was interested.
Good luck and quit thinking that it's you! The world is messed up enough without downing yourself!

2007-07-03 13:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by VOL76 1 · 0 0

while you may not feel like she was a rebound, the fact is,that it has only been a few months since your wife left you .when my husband left me, i rushed into another relationship to fill the void, then another, then another... the point is- you must allow yourself time to come to terms with the emotions you are avoiding from your wife's actions. you will carry unresolved baggage with you into every new relationship until you become comfortable being with just yourself. it develops confidence and self-reliance that ,will not only serve you well, but will be extremely sexy to women. you are reactling in a very common manner, and depression , neediness, feelings of rejection etc. are to be expected -for a while. dont panic! there is soo much hope for you yet.!! just be still and concentrate on you- and only you . self-improvement is always a good thing to do at this time. we all have things we can improve on. it will give you a great ego boost. then- go find you a lady, or let her find you. best wishes

2007-07-03 13:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0 0

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2016-09-05 14:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

It sounds like you got the whole rebound thing down pat. I would say "yer go out there and get another chick", but i get the feeling something similar will happen.

Stop thinking the way you are, your ruining perfectly good relationships for nothing.

2007-07-03 12:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0 0

i know it hurts terribly right now, but you have to remember that everything happens for a reason. we all come out of relationships better people, we learn more about ourselves and how resilient we can be. speaking from personal experience, you realize how beautiful life is and you keep going. just remember that the right girl is out there for you...as long as you never give up looking for her. hell, sometimes love finds you and bites you in the butt when you least expect it....cheer up, im sure you're an awesome guy....

2007-07-03 12:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by susie 2 · 0 0

See a therapist. It worked for me.

2007-07-03 12:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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