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yes, you bring a gift to both events. typically the bridal shower gift is less extravagant than the wedding gift.

people bring gifts to both, they will bring both to yours, it is how it is done, we do not question we just do. :P

2007-07-03 12:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 3 2

Traditionally yes, you would purchase two gifts...the bridal shower is for the bride and thus the gift would be more appropriate for her. The wedding gift would be something for the couple.

Now, my fiance and are going away for our wedding because we didn't want the hassle of organizing a big wedding. So, of course, I just assumed that meant we didn't expect presents from people either.

Well, now, we are up to three showers because people want an opportunity to celebrate with us and give us gifts. I'm kind of overwhelmed because I don't want people to feel obliged to give us things when we haven't invited them to our wedding. but of course if this is what people want to do, we certainly appreciate the thought (and gifts are always nice:) ).

So, in our case I expect we will only receive one gift from people with the exception perhaps of our parents...I have this feeling my parents have bought me something and have also gotten us a joint gift (call it intuition!).

anyway, this is off topic a bit but it really depends on what you are comfortable with. Like I said, tradition is to get two gifts but I'm sure the bride and groom do not expect that (unless they are desparate for gifts).

Hope this helps.

2007-07-04 12:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by PAWS 5 · 0 0

Yes, unfortunately. A typical wedding dinner costs the couple between $35 and $50 per plate! Add in the cost of the venue reservation, flowers, deccorations, music, cake, favors, a photographer, etc., etc., and an appropiate wedding gift comes to about $50 to $100 a person. Good luck, and have fun!

2007-07-03 19:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by NicNac 2 · 0 1

Traditionally NO. If you gave lingerie at the bridal shower then the bride will more than likely expect you to give a gift from the registry. If you purchased off the registry or took something other than lingerie then that is your wedding gift. For years and years only one gift was "expected", if even that, but when brides started getting greedy and when people started buying lingerie items for bridal showers it was almosted expected that you bring another gift. In my personal opinion no gift should be expected because I always looked at it that my guests attendance was my gift.

2007-07-03 19:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

Wedding gifts are NOT required.

The Bride and Groom only requested your presence as their present.

If you want to get a wedding gift, go for it.

You could always get something inexpensive like a pretty picture frame for their wedding photo.

2007-07-04 10:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0 1

Generally you don't buy a wedding gift, you usually give cash or check. The shower gift is different than the wedding. Give cash. It's easier for the bride and groom to carry home.

2007-07-03 19:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by kikio 6 · 0 3

traditionally yes! the bridal shower and wedding are two different things. The bridal shower gift should be for "the bride" the wedding gift should be for the couple

2007-07-03 19:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by victoriarose1982 2 · 5 3

Yes, the wedding gift is a more substantial gift.

2007-07-04 03:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1 1

true etiquette says no, but let's be for real for a minute. everyone will expect a gift at the wedding. personally i think it's tacky to not bring one to the wedding. if you're on a tight budget, shop around for a meaningful, yet inexpensive gift. or make one, like a shadowbox frame or photo album.

2007-07-03 19:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by tvelez128 3 · 1 2

if you are attending both then yes you should bring a gift. the gift and costs of the gift should reflect your budget and the type of event. most guests will give a gift that is around the cost of their meal. gifts are not mandatory but it would be rude not to give one.

2007-07-03 19:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Roc 4 · 2 1

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