well i moved out of my ex's house because i couldn't take the fact that we were broken up and stilling living together and he was talking to another chick......this chick he's talking he was talking to her when we were together.......he says that they weren't talking like that when we were together.....what you think? I'm trying to move on but it's so hard that was a 4 year relationship we broke up because he would cause me to get real aggressive with him when he made inappropriate comments to other women and trying to make me jealous......Should i just move on or fight for what i want????
2007-07-03 11:51:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL U SHOULD MOVE ON HE'S LYING IF HE WAS TALKING 2 THAT GIRL WHILE U WERE 2 GETHER HE WAS SAYING STUFF 2 HER HE HAD AN ATTRACTION 2 HER THAN IT DIDN'T JUST START BECAUSE NOW U GUYS AINT 2 GETHER HE'S PLAYING U STAY AWAY FROM HIM TRUST ME UR BETTER OFF I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH KINDDA THE SAMETHING
2007-07-03 12:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by MR MURILLO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on. It's no good to be in a relationship where one person is trying to annoy the other or make them upset. I was in one and I told her good bye! Yes I was sad for little while but after the sadness left, I didn't care anymore. I was so happy to not have to deal with all the arguing and fighting. You all are broke up, if you all have no children then I would forget him. All he will do is sweet talk you enough to keep you around then drag your self esteem through the mud. It is not worth your time or you sanity.
2007-07-03 11:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Move on. Move forward. He's not worth fight\ting for. Any man who plays head games like it sounds he was,just ain't worth the aggravation because he'll just keep instigating trouble to get you going because he loves the attention -not you. Free yourself from this guy so that someone better can have a chance.
2007-07-03 12:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by bluegrayshadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. I've lived with an ex before and it was nothing but trouble. When he's around all the time you can never get the time apart that you need to either renew your relationship or move on. Either way you need space from him.
2007-07-03 11:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you need to be happy and find a real love. You cannot do this if you are still hanging on to the past with your ex by having fights that will have no real positive outcome.
2007-07-03 11:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Notorious LJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on. obviously he has, so there is no need to cling onto some kind of hope. if he said those inappropriate comments to women to make u jealous it shows that he is just a kid and im sure u want to look for a grown man that can make u happy.
2007-07-03 11:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by janie rey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Obviously he's not respecting you. Do you think that will get any better? You've already been with him for four years!
The right guy will come along and he'll treat you the way you should be treated. He won't have to make you jealous. He'll see you for who you are. Beautiful!
2007-07-03 11:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by thunder01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, move on! Offer your best to someone who really appreciates it! There is no reason in the world to try and make somebody else jealous, (meaning you OR your boyfriend) if you think about it. What does this accomplish? Nothing! Find somebody who will treat you right. Good luck!
2007-07-03 11:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by BLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's ridiculous to live with someone you love when they want someone else! You can't blame him when you are the one causing unnecessary pain on yourself. I'm sure it's hard and 4 years is a really long time... but break free and start looking elsewhere.
2007-07-03 11:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on .Leave your past behind.Men are traditionally the pursuers.Men are like buses in another ten minutes another on come along.You might want to reflect about what attracts you to bad boy behavior.Go to the book store,or on line read about healthy give and take relationships.I feel your pain.I am atrracted to aggresive emotionaly unavailable dominnt women .I recognize it now.My mom was hell on wheels and thats initailly what i am attracted to.Working on findind safer people to hang with.
2007-07-03 12:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Clean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋