Well I'm sort of in a difficult situation. And I would like some outsider views and perspectives. I know it's a real personal thing to put online, but I feel like I need some other peoples advice other than my friends. Cause you're girlfriends first instinct is to always say, "Dump him!". Once done wrong by you, they give him the boot. Anyways, here's the story. I've been seeing this guy who I dated 8 years ago. He found me on myspace and we kinda rekindled. We are very comfortable with eachother and have such a nice time. Make eachother laugh and just enjoy eachothers company. But recently, he's been kind of weird. He's not much of an open talker. It's hard to get him to talk seriously. So he started a new job and works all the time. But yet he goes out and stays out late with his friends. His calling has dimmed down. I haven't seen him for a week. We haven't been intimate for 3. But he says everything is normal. And I'm nothing but honest with him. Ideas?
2007-07-03 11:26:03 · 3 answers · asked by mystiq_247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a very sweet girl. Don't "settle" for someone who apparently isn't giving you what you want/need. When it's right, there will be no doubt....if it seems conflicted, it is.
2007-07-03 11:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cher, Why didn't it work the first time? Deja Vous? These Man-Babies are too high maintenance! There are nice guys out there looking for a relationship to be part of...don't waste time on something that didn't work out before. Yes, its hard to move on but when you find a mate who wants to contribute like you do, you will be sooo happy! Annie
2007-07-03 11:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's not interested anymore. If things have cooled off that much, something's up. :-(
2007-07-03 11:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋