I loved this girl when I was at school and she did used to send me signs cross the class like looking at me and she ask me out but everone told me she didn't love me and this guy went out with her and yeah I got very very Jealous and they made me watch them kissing each other and she come round my house try to sort it out with me but I was so so Jealous I was just playing up by acting like a kid and I was getting my own back on to them anyway they went to court with me which I won and that was the last time I saw her when she cry, when she cry deep down it hurted me to. 7 years last this past march we both walked each other way and her new posh boyfriend went inside of a shop and me and her was just looking at each other in the eyes and it hurted when he got hold off her hand and walked past me but has she walked past each other we couldn't keep our eyes of each other and we didn't give each other no black looks. how can I show her I have changed and that I have grown -up
2007-07-03 09:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to hurt no-body but just I still love her and my heart as always been with her and it was there before this posh guy come , I can I win her heart what should I say I want to heel her not to hurt her I think I need a fe-male advise on this. I have grown up but how should I show her I care about her we met ever since we was 11 i'm so un-happy I can't stop thinking about her she means alot more then my own life to me. when she cryed in court it also hurted me too what should I say to her next time I see her I still got feelings for her and everday I just sit down and think of her all the time there is a part of my heart whats missing and thats her, I can't stop thinking about her, ever morning I wake up till I go to bed at night I always think of her and thinking what is she doing now ! and like last night I keep dreaming about her , why does it still hurt deep inside of me
2007-07-03 09:34:15 · update #1
with everthing what happen for 2 years it made me so so ill deep dow nand the only thing I wanted is to show her can I do something and that is to make it in the fame world now im not sure if thats silly or not but its in my heart to show her i can do it, cause she hurted me so so bad that I was thinking of being somebody to show her, I don't know my feelings are so mix up right now I hate her but same time I got feelings for her and I just want to shout at her but same time I love her what can I do I mean she means alot to me all I think about everday is her, I'm feeling sick and ill i'm missing her that much I just want to cry my heart feels cutt open deep
2007-07-03 09:34:29 · update #2
The best thing for both of you is to forgive and forget about each other. She moved on and apparently you haven't. A two year obsession isn't good for your emotional health. There are plenty of fish in the sea as the saying goes.
2007-07-03 09:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try and be friends with her again and hang out with her as friends and see where it goes and if she gets closer to you and you have a good time with her and she feels the same way than yeah i would ask her to be more than that otherwise i dont know what else to say... i wish i had a guy that cared that much
2007-07-03 16:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by bowler_chic27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, It hurts because it"s an unresponsive love. Your acions will speak louder than words.Send her a letter telling her how you feel and then step back and let her decide how she feels ! If it doesn"t go your way, deal with it !
2007-07-03 16:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think counseling might do you good, I dont know if this obsession with this girl is healthy.
2007-07-03 16:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋