Why are Christains so anti-woman?

Question

I was reading some of the questions in th R&S section and one of them was about a girl who was raped and shes 13 years old and she was preganant by her rapist. Many of the people told her that it was her fault that she was raped and she deserved it . That's insane. I was raped at the age of 14 and tied down to a bed for 48 hours. Did I deserve it? No neither did she. I was also pregnant and I had no intention of keeping the child. why would I keep a child of a sick and twisted rapist? I had a miscarrige(thank god) and I was going to get an abortion.

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I'm glad I'm not a Chrsitain no more.

Opinionated-The reason why I not pro-baby because it's my body and it's my choice. I wouldn't want a child by a man who violated me. Why would I want something I wouldn't care for? Having baby doens't solve anything it just creates more problems what if I kept the baby and it grew up knowing that it's father was a sick rapist. You haven't been in my shoes so don't judge me. I'm 16 years old and I had more happen to me longer than you have. Don't get it twisted

I don't understand that logic. Why have kids when they are unplanned? I would rather be childless than 16 years old raising a kid on my own. Adoption isn't the answer either. What if the baby comes back looking for me? What am I suppose to say "you're daddy was a rapist and I hate you and I never want to see you again"?

I don't understand that logic. Why have kids when they are unplanned? I would rather be childless than 16 years old raising a kid on my own. Adoption isn't the answer either. What if the baby comes back looking for me? What am I suppose to say "you're daddy was a rapist and I hate you and I never want to see you again"?

Answer 1

Christians are anti-FREEDOM, they aren't just targeting women, they want to control EVERYONE!

The cult of Christianity is MENTALLY ILL and have been brainwashed to think in circles.

Women are more EMOTIONAL and men are more PROGRAMMABLE...The males are the only ones allowed to preach because they HAVE TO KEEP THEIR STORY STRAIGHT, and a woman may just decide one day to say "F#CK THIS, today, I'm gonna tell them THE TRUTH!"

So "God" left MEN in charge of the household and the church...

Answer 2

I was rape at the age 15 and I kept my child because it was not his fault. He is almost 30 now and I have 2 beautiful grandchildren from him now 10yrs old and 5 years old. He has a beautiful wife and they are doing great in life. It was not my fault or my child's fault.
I am sorry you had to go through this I know how hard it is to be violated. I was also rape in a foster home at the age of 13.
Nothing was ever done about either one of those.
By the way I am a Christian.
(((HUGS)))

Answer 3

WHOA! Slow down a second.

1. I'm a Christian.
2. I'm a woman.
3. I've been sexually assaulted myself.
4. The WORST treatment I received as a result of the assault was from my ATHEIST doctor...who was ALSO a woman!
5. Stop generalizing. I would NEVER blame the victim in the case of rape. And for the record, when I was assaulted, my Christian friends were VERY sweet to me (one of them told me I had PTSD and pushed me into getting counseling, and even supported me when I told her that if I got pregnant I would have an abortion).

No, you did not deserve it. NO rape victim is "asking for it" and they DON'T deserve it.

Answer 4

um okay its not the whole christian religoin its just some people that ridicule the others
i have had a personal experience at church when some people think that they walk on freakin water it pisses me off but i have reaalized that its not the religion its the people
i am christian but i dont go to church that often


i am so sorry u got raped
its not ur fault my best friends sister was raped and my aunt was raped
those people that were riduculing that other girl are posers and they are not real christians
dont stop believing bcuz some a$$ holes are mean


i am sorry you can email me if u ever want to talk to someone

Answer 5

you could plug your ears and scream " l. a. l. a. l. a. i won't be in a position to hearken to you" yet lust will nonetheless exist. The church did not make up that observe, you will discover it in each sort of secular issues. Christians are actually not anti-intercourse. they're anti-intercourse outdoors of marriage. intercourse is an fantastic, incredible, suitable element. in basic terms human beings pervert it with the aid of using it in a fashion that God did not intend. And sure, there is such element as a intercourse/porn addiction. The chemical compounds released on your recommendations once you're sexually aroused would properly be addicting, purely like a drug. it fairly is a organic drug.

Answer 6

okay i am so sorry about that i really am sad to hear that but u know no religon says that the person raped deserved it. if people said that dont go saying bad things about the religon its not the religon who does evil its the people who hide behind religon to do evil and personaly i dont think that u should have left ur relgion just becasue of that no matter what relgion , but instead a person should choose religon after finding out the truth after researching the truth and really belivieng in it u know ? but i would also liek to say that it was ur baby to not only his and plus is it the baby s fault that the guy raped u dont kill an inocent life just because of his father right ?if u get an abortion ur just as bad he is a rapist but u are a killer but anyways u toattly didnt deserve it

Answer 7

I saw one answer that said it was her fault. So no, many people did not.

Secondly, I've seen atheists claim they want someone's grandmother to die whenever they ask for prayer. Do I make it so that I think all atheists are heartless trolls? No.

Instead, I use a logical deduction that one person doesn't reflect the views of the rest of people.

Answer 8

I'm sorry some Christians acted that way. But please don't think we're all that terrible. I am personally a Christian, I think want that girl and what you went through are horrible, and I think abortion is a personal choice that shouldn't be made by anyone but the woman going through the ordeal. Christianity itself isn't anti-woman, just some Christians are.

Answer 9

I am a Christian with a wife and 2 daughters. I despise violence against women and have NEVER met a Christian who felt otherwise. The people you speak of ccan hardly be Human, let alone Christian by any definition. I am sorry you were raped. I apologize for your pain. I wish you only peace and love the rest of your days in Jesus' Name! Amen!

Answer 10

The early Roman church censored any text showing women in high regard amongst Jesus and the disciples.

See the Gospel Of Mary, which was not included in the bible because it presents a powerful woman held in high regard by Jesus.

Answer 11

Honestly, People who tell rape victims that it was their fault are nothing but Trolls and I'm sorry that trolls posing as christians have hurt and offended you.