i have this guy friend that i like he's really sweet and all but he has a girlfriend. He's always saying we'll do things but then he adds when i don't have a girlfriend.
this is just an example he'll go...we have to see that movie but when i don't have a girlfriend..
what do you think he means when he says things like that?
2007-07-03 06:45:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably doesn't want his girlfriend getting mad at him for hanging out with another girl (you) while they're dating. And he probably already knows that things aren't going to work out between him and this girl anyway... especially if he's talking about himself being single. Don't worry, he'll straighten out eventually.
2007-07-03 06:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by -°¤§~Blue Eyed Sinner~§¤°- 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is letting you know that he likes you and trying to gauge your response. By doing so while he still has a girlfriend though makes me think he is just holding you out as a back up plan in case the current girl doesn't work out.
2007-07-03 13:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just means exactly what he says. He knows how girlfriends tend to act when they boyfriend hangs out with female friends. I've been in that position before-as the girlfriend. Whether you like it or not, the girlfriend is bound to get jealous if her guy hangs out with another girl.
I suggest that you go with them and a group of friends when you want to hang out with your guy friend.
2007-07-03 13:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean anything and he isn't really making any plans with you he is letting you know that he can't make himself available to do certain things because he has a girlfriend. If he was truly interested in your relationship with him going the Emeril - That's kicking it up a notch - BLAM - he would make other moves and stop mentioning his girlfriend to you.
2007-07-03 13:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he has a girlfriend and he can't have any friends that are girls. He is trying to hang on to you, while he has a girlfriend so he has a back-up plan.
Forget this looser and move on. You don't need to play his game or be a player in the game.
2007-07-03 13:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he means he would like to do it when he breaks up with her he'll go do it so if he starts to like u then it won't be a problen cuz he doesn't hav a girlfriend and if he did he could eend up cheating on u and his girlfriend. i don't really know but i have this whole nother thoought in my head thats probably egzactly right but its just not coming innto words, im sorry. but i hope this works a little.
any way good luck with this! :]]
2007-07-03 13:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by **a bay bay!!** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl in waiting. Hon this guy is just keeping you on the hook so in case his girlfriend doesn"t work out you will be there to fall back on ! You deserve better !
2007-07-03 13:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that he doesn't know how to have a girlfriend and a female friend. Maybe she's jealous of you and he doesn't want to tick her off by hanging out with you?? You're friends...you HAVE to hang out together!
2007-07-03 13:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by O->--< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're his back up girlfriend in case the other relationship falls though. He's stringing you along. Cut him off before you get deeper into this and hurt even more. You're no one's second best! :)
2007-07-03 13:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be in the process of leaving her. Be careful that you don't end up being blamed for his leaving her, because she might think you are the reason. Either that or he is teasing. Try not to get too involved because you don't want to be labelled for something that he has planned.
2007-07-03 13:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋