my boyfriend want's me to show more cleavege (by the way i'm 19 so i'm aloud to do what i want to), but i work at a daycare & that'd ruin my rep. what should i do?
feel free to im me.
2007-07-03 06:12:36 · 53 answers · asked by softballchick82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what YOU want and what YOU feel good about...
If your boyfriend cares about you, he'll accept that.
2007-07-03 06:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't wear cleavage showing shirts at work! That would definitely be a very bad thing. But when you two are together, on dates or just hanging out, feel free to change beforehand into something a little nicer or low-cut. But why is he asking you to do this in the first place? Shouldn't he be happy with you as you are? I think he should. But anyway. Just my opinion there.
2007-07-03 06:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with and definately dont do it at work!! It's fine for him to say he wants you to show more, but if you don't want to, that's his problem. You don't have to change the way your dress to suit him. But, compromise is always good, so maybe on occasion you could wear a lower cut shirt when it's just you and him or some other time when you're comfortable with it. Absolutely do not wear it to work though!!
2007-07-03 06:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Caitie123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your job, is what you do!!!!
Show them only if you are comfortable. Tell your boyfriend to watch what he asks for. The next thing, he'll be upset, because some guy is looking down your shirt.
My husband loves my cleavage too, but it he does get a little jealous when guys stare. I choose alone time to show them with him.
If your choose to do this, just remember who you are going to be around. If there are a bunch of guys and their girls (who by the way, my get jealous too or mad at you as well) Keep them in around crowds.
Show them when it's just you and him. (if you want too)
Peace
2007-07-03 06:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by littlecraps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't wear the cleavage baring tops to daycare:-) You can show cleavage while still looking classy, sexy cleavage is better anyway. When you are alone with your man you can wear some more exciting things.
2007-07-03 06:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by lady J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the dress code at work. It's your job we're talking about here, not some club you go to for fun, he should understand that. When you go out, if you are comfortable, show a bit more skin. Just explain to him that you're not about to go breaking the dress code at work to satisfy HIS desire for you to show more boobage!!! If that doesn't sit well with him, dump him and find someone who respects you a little more.
2007-07-03 06:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, usually its the your guy not wanting you to show cleavage. What's his problem? Of course he wouldn't want you to do it at a daycare!! Just do it on the weekends or around him. It doesn't have to be slutty. Just a v-neck shirt. Something like that. BTW, flaunt it!! He'll change his mind fast!!
2007-07-03 06:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by LuvuLaura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young lady,
I suggest that you both begin a Bible Study so that he understands how he should treat you. You are NOT a piece of MEAT for him to show off or a toy for him to play with. You are absolutely right about your reputation. If he does not understand about your reputaqtion or care about you he should find a "New TOY" to play with. You are worth much more than that to GOD, to yourself, and to others who actually care about you. Have a wonderful week.
Thanks,
Eds (A simple Happily Married Christian)
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2007-07-03 06:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to shove it. You're a woman - and you may be a teenager but you have your own mind. Just like your mother couldn't have you wearing burlap and sackcloth - some guy can't tell you how you need to dress. Like - so if he's the one you want to impress - why would he be asking you to show yourself off to the rest of the world. Trust me, most of us don't want or need to see. Thank you!
2007-07-03 06:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends when he wants you to show more. If it is when youre at the daycare center, that would probably be a little weird. If it's with him, go for it.
2007-07-03 06:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by bullDoG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. Your boyfriend wants you to show more cleavage because he's all about sex. You know what you want for yourself so don't let him talk you into anything that doesn't feel comfortable to you.
2007-07-03 06:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋