I don't want to hurt his feelings, but it's like he's trying to rub a crayon mark off of a wall. He also uses his teeth in unpleasant ways!
2007-07-03 06:08:35 · 21 answers · asked by The Naughty Librarian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him in the sexiest way possible that you need him to be gentle take it easy with you, because thats the way you like it. When things get heavy, let him know that you want it "softer" and "slower" guys actually like it when you tell them what to do in bed. When he does something you like say it, so he knows to keep doing it.
2007-07-03 06:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he starts to touch you tell him how you like it. Tell him to slow down or not so hard. He'll appreciate the guidance and you can enjoy the experience. As for the teeth, jump slightly, which I'm sure happens already, and tell him "Why don't you try --- it instead" Compliment him on his new style....they love to hear that.
2007-07-03 07:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that the hardest thing for adults that were molested as children was the fact that no one believed them, or even worse, that they were called liars by people who should have helped them.. I have no idea if your daughter was lying or not, but you must ask yourself how you will feel in 10 years if you make the wrong call right now. I wholeheartedly hope that you make the right decision and protect your daughter, even at the cost of losing a relationship. You will have many relationships throughout your life, but your daughter will only have one childhood.
2016-05-17 08:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward, tell him how u feel, but
in a nice way. Or show him a picture or a movie
of what happens when someone goes too rough.
2007-07-03 06:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know. When the two of you are alone, just tell him he shouldn't be so rough. You can even guide him a little; show him how you like to be touched. I'm sure he'll learn if you put it to him nicely.
2007-07-03 06:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by djruffin614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try biting him without drawing blood, when he gets a taste of his own medicine he will realize. You wont be hurting his feelings, and its better to hurt his feelings and realize early in the relationship than to suffer throughout your relationship.
Human bites can be as toxic as animal bites so be careful.
2007-07-03 06:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by brian p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what feel good and what doesn't. Show him how to do it. Take his hand and show him "like this". Ask him what he likes and get him to show you. It might hurt his feelings for a minute, but he'll appreciate it when he sees how you respond.
2007-07-03 06:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Answer Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and make him stop everytime he crosses the line. Actions speak louder than words, but you need both.
2007-07-03 06:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Stop being so rough with me"
Seriously....we like to give our girls pleasure, and if you come out and tell us exactly what we need to do better.....while it may suck a little to hear, we appreciate a lot more than playing a guessing game with what your needs are.
2007-07-03 06:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Chris O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't say he's doing it wrong
Its gotta be something like
I like it when you touch me softer
Or it feels so much better When you....
Give instruction, don't just tell him he is doing it too hard
2007-07-03 06:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋