i have been in relationships with two of my cousins (14 & 15). i have tried to break it off with both of them but they have both threatened to tell about our realationship if i do break it off. one of them (the 15 year old) has actually said she will tell that i raped her, we have had sex on more than one ocasion, but i never raped her. what should i do about this?
2007-07-03 05:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are above the age of 18 and they are only 14 &15, then that is considered rape, no matter whether they consented to it or not.
I suggest you see a lawyer about what options to pursue in ending the two relationships with your extended family, and keeping yourself out of jail.
2007-07-03 06:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18 then it's too late. Otherwise try and get a witness to her bribery and hopefully if it goes to court or to jail you can possibly fight it but even still you never know. I would definitely advise against continuing the relationship. If you think you will get in trouble for once, you'll get into a heap of trouble for doing it a few more times and then you definitely can't use the defense that I had to keep doing it otherwise I would be reported you are best cutting your losses and dealing with the situation you have now.
2007-07-03 13:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, how old are u? secondly, eewww! thats incest! they are your cousins, are you from west virginia or what?
Anyway, its a typical he said/she said, and not much can be done, unless someone else knows of this relationship and can back up your story.
However, if u r 18, then it is still statutory rape, even if consensual, so you will be looking at jail time regardless.
2007-07-03 13:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the truth and say u didnt rape her.cux u didnt.she volunatary did it with u.but its kinda weird since there both ur cuzins....kinda...weird o.0 but u shouldnt be charged cux u aint do nothing.just be honest and tell her to stop lyin and stop bn clingy on u
2007-07-03 13:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why the hell would you have sex with your cousins are you that desperate...actually if you are over 18 you already can be charged with statutory rape..
2007-07-03 13:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by GA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18 it is statutory rape already!
2007-07-03 13:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. It will be confidential. If you can't afford one, there are legal ad groups. I think they will take your case. Start documenting the conversations. Make excuses, but don't sleep with them.
2007-07-03 13:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
avoid the subject and stop thinking so hard
if you didnt rape her you didnt
say she raped you or something or say she thretened you
2007-07-03 13:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by SCU 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you be in a relationship with your cousins anyway?
2007-07-03 13:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by supercalifragilisticexpialidocio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahhhh incesttts.
2007-07-03 13:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by chill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋