mom's and dad's please helppppp?

Question

me and my feonca desides last night thats we are ready to have a child and now i fell so nervise is there any mom's and dad's out there that can give me some hints and tips for not being so nervise and to the mom's whats the best thang i can do for here to help here through the next 9 months
thx for all your help
nick

just wanted to say thx for every ones info and help and yes i can spell i know but really thank u all for your help as far as job is gowing i am working as a forestry firefighter so i make good money about 2000-3000 a month pending on how long im out on the fires for

Answer 1

I don't want to sound like I am preaching or a know it all, but I have two children and I know what goes into raising a child.
Before you two have a child you really need to consider what that will mean to your life. Sure, children are cute and lovable, but they are also very expensive and time consuming. Ask yourself if you are emotionally, mentally, and financially ready for this big of a decision. I've been around children all my life and I waited until I was 30 before having a child and, yet, I was and still am amazed at how much goes into raising children. For some reason I suspect that you two are very young so I suggest that you really consider everything involved in having a baby. Aside from that, If you decide to have a child what you can do to help your fiance is to make sure she sees a doctor as soon as you know she is pregnant. Proper medical care is essential to a healthy pregnancy. You can be there for her emotionally because her emotions will be crazy for a while. She will be very tired so help her around the house all you can. Make sure she eats properly and gives up any bad habits she may have. Take parenting classes together. The classes will help you become more prepared and are usually free. Also, find emotional support for yourself either through family or friends who have been there. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

First off, I commend you for being a stand up guy that wants to be there for your woman. There are no big solutions on how to not be nervous, that is natural. You will get the hang of it. As far as the next nine months, just be there for her and all of her cravings and doctor appointments, just share this experience with her and both of you will do just fine. Parenting is not something that is taught, it is something that is learned. When you see and learn your baby's wants and needs you will get it, it will just come to you.

Second, feonca is spelled FIANCE and nervise is NERVOUS and what is a thang.

Nick please when the baby get older and in school, please let mom handle the homework. Don't ever try to teach your child how to spell.

Answer 3

congrats for wanting a child... first of all are you prepared for the baby... eg fiances, who will work after the baby is born? these are minor things but they still count... as for what you can do for her... make sure she gets rest! make sure you help out as much as you can she will let you! make sure you are there for her and listen to her and if she snaps you head off when she is labour just remember the product at the end will be worth it!! also make sure that she takes folate tablets and pregnancy vitamins one month before considering children... other then that take your chances!! good luck!!!

Answer 4

LEARN HOW TO USE SPELL CHECK BEFORE YOU HAVE CHILDREN!!!!!