Ive never had a Girlfriend and my teen years have been pretty tame. I gets me thinking that I will never find a gf and will just grow old and unnoticed. The fact that im getting older now sucks as well
Anyone else ever feel this way?
2007-07-03 05:09:56 · 27 answers · asked by Blink-Monkey-Blink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks ppl
2007-07-03 06:29:21 · update #1
Man, your only 20! Your acting like your life is over!! Im pretty sure your not on the shelf yet.
2007-07-03 05:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mighty Lilywhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh you're only turning 20. I'm 22 and i only found my boyfriend at 20. Before that i was happyish being single. Yeah there was times when i wanted a boyfriend but then i'd see my other friends having to answer to someone and i could just do my own thing without having to run it by anyone. Theres no point having a girlfriend just for the sake of having one. Better off just test the waters with lots of different girls while you're young. Plenty time for settling down. Happy birthday by the way and sorry for waffling.
2007-07-03 05:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am turning 25 sat and never had a girlfriend so that should make you feel better :) It sucks but I keep telling my self thirty is the new 20 right. I am rooting for you because it is getting expensive being in love with a stripper.
2007-07-03 07:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will get a gf when you are not looking. And, just because you have a gf doesn't mean you won't feel like crap for a different reason. I suggest finding something other than a gf that can pull you out the the slump. Keep your chin up =) and Happy Birthday
2007-07-03 05:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax ---- I never had a g/f till I was 24 and knew nothing about sex. Since then I have been married twice and apart from my two daughters wish I had never seen either of them.
Age is only a number !!!
What you do in life is 90% up to you. If you want to do something Go for it 100%
You find a "partner" in the most unusual places. Is a "Partner" so important???????
2007-07-03 07:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not the only person feeling this way, so don't beat yourself up about it. Remember, if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got (or something to that effect!)
Try a new hobby, like kickboxing or an evening class and use it as an opportunity to meet new people. Even if you don't meet any potential girlfriends ther, you'll gain skills on how to approach them when you do meet someone you're attracted to.
Good luck!!
2007-07-03 05:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by n i k k i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's okay. At 20 you're still just starting out!
There's plenty of time to meet someone. And trust me -- having been married now for nearly 10 years, I can tell you that you'll find the woman for you when you're not really looking for her. I met my wife when I was at the bar watching a hockey game with friends -- no intention of meeting anyone at all, least of all the woman that would eventually bear our child.
Chin up, shoulders high. Just be yourself. And cheer up.
2007-07-03 05:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by bluesfan86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a boyfriend an yes I am a bit younger than you but I've never had a boyfriend bcause I'm in love and too shy to do anything about it, is that why u ain't got a gf?
Good Luck xx
2007-07-03 06:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20's not bad. And as for the whole never had a girlfriend thing I'm sure you'll meet the right one sooner or later. Sometimes it's just the qustioning of good timing.
2007-07-03 05:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure in time, you will meet someone if you just get out there and enjoy yourself! You are only 20! I am 26 tomorrow, so you are not as old as me!!! Just relax, start going out with people and enjoy it and you will get more confidence the more you do. A girl will come along sometime, just hold out and have some faith! x
2007-07-03 05:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋