i have tried spicing thing up by dressing up and different things like that and diff positions but it doesnt seem to be working?!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-03 04:59:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best thing is to sit him and down and talk to him, find out why he's lost interest.
some people will say he is cheating but this isn't necessarily true, he could be stressed with work or other things going on in his life. you won't know until you speak to him about it. good luck!
2007-07-03 05:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Emma G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sit yourself down and make a list: Pros/Cons. In the Pros list, think of things that have gotten better since you started dating and list them. Then, take a good look at yourself in the mirror and decide what has changed, both in your looks, dress and attitude towards him and see how you relate to each other differently(negatively) in the time you've been together. List thes in the 'cons'. Now be objective and ask yourself if you feel or act any differentlt towards him sexually than you did in the beginning or when things seemed to change...and there are your answers.
2007-07-03 05:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's on medication, have him talk to the doctor about it as many medications decrease libido. Otherwise he could also be depressed, it is also proven that depression can cause someone to lose intrest in sex. If hes having trouble getting erections he should talk to his doctor about it. Or other possible causes can sometimes include endrocranary problems such as upset hormone balence. So I suggest he sees a doctor (dont be afraid to talk to your doctor about your sex life, they wont laugh about it and by law can't tell other people unless its medically nessicary.)
2007-07-03 05:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be many different things. Maybe he just lost interest in being with you. The two of you should start talking about it though before things get worse for the both of you.
2007-07-03 05:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ouch on that first answer...geez. anyway i think it could be a lot of things. maybe it is stress from work or family obligations. spontaneity always works--if you haven't tried yet. Catch them off guard and see how they react. If this doesnt work maybe try the opposite--cool off for a while and wait for him to make a move. best of luck!!
2007-07-03 05:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be lots of reasons. THere could be a medical reason, could be he is tired and cant bring himself to perform or it could be he decided he is not that into you and doesnt want to have sex with you. Or he could be having sex with someone else and doesnt have enough energy to have sex again when he gets home
2007-07-03 05:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one of two things
1. He has realized that he is in fact a homosexual
or
2. You need to stop being the aggressor. Make him come to you and tell him "not tonight" from time to time.
Although most people will not admit it.........we all want what we cant have..........If he "has" it too much then hes not going to want it anymore.
2007-07-03 05:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he wants to take a break from always having sex or maybe he wants to try different stuff. I suggest you try different positions and/or technique. Good Luck and I hope he comes around. =]
2007-07-03 05:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe hes tired, stressed, gone off sex, doesn't fancy you, doesn't like his own body, can't be bothered, sleeping with another woman.
yup *** i'd go for the last one - sorry.
2007-07-03 05:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even I have a similar problem with my wife. I do not know what to do.Should I go to the "other" gals to satisfy me?
2007-07-03 23:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by ak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋