What if theres a person cares about how one is from the inside,but also cares about the outside(appearence)?
why is shallow called in a bad way when theres really nothing wrong being shallow?
2007-07-03 03:56:50 · 20 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Christine: lol,ma fhmtee the Q at allllllll....
3am 2ool ennu chufeya eza elwahed cares about the appeareance too?
chu ye3nee sayer shallow too?
2007-07-03 07:47:20 · update #1
People that say physical appearance doesn't matter are full of it or maybe they just settled. I know for me, the person I marry is going to the most important person in my life, so I want the entire package. I don't that is being shallow at all. Relationships and marriage are supposed to be special. I went through a period where i felt that I could end up with anybody if I worked at it enough ... that's a bunch of crap and I'm glad I snapped out of that. I want "the one" and I'm a believer in fate and destiny. I trust that a higher power has a plan for me and that my life is going according to that plan!
Is it OK to be shallow? if that's what you want to call it, then YES! I don't consider it shallow AT ALL! I call it somebody knows what they want on the inside and outside and won't settle for anything less. That's how it should be in my opinion!
2007-07-03 17:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by ** Azzurri ** 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you care about what is on the inside of a person as much as what is on the outside, you are not shallow. A shallow person is a person who cares MORE about what is on the outside. A person that cares more about what is the outside, a real shallow person, is wrong because what is on the outside of a person is not who that person really is. I'll tell you one thing. It's a shame if you ARE shallow, right or wrong, because beauty on the outside does not last. Better hope other people are not shallow, or you'll be living a lonely lifetime. Being shallow is not only a bad thing, but it is a stupid and self-destructive thing. No one really likes a shallow person. But just because you care about the appearance of people does not make you a shallow person. Life simply isn't that simple.
2007-07-03 11:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shallow is when you don't care about the inside, that it's all looks. I believe that outside looks are a factor because usually that's what initially attracts you. Shallow people don't care if a girl is a b**** or if a guy is a jerk, they still want to get with them because of their appearance.
2007-07-03 11:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sublime Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be shallow, you have to JUST care about the outside, at leats thats how i see it.
we are human and as much as some people wish to deny it appearance does matter, if it didnt would there be aisles of beauty products in the store?? everybody cares at least a little bit about outer appearance just some people more than others.
So no it does not make you shallow, yes it is okay to feel that way.
2007-07-03 11:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by ABANDONED 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because, shallow people judge other people before getting to know them, if a person cares whats on the inside and outside that isn't being shallow.
2007-07-03 11:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not being shallow..you are being honest with yourself..as long as you arent expecting to have someone who is a 'ten' then i dont think its being shallow..then again,what you think is a beautiful person,i may have a different opinion about what is a beautiful person to me..i think its good to want the 'total package' i want someone who is beautiful on the inside and out..its very important to me. anything less than that id be lying to myself..dont feel bad because you desire to be with someone you are attracted to physically..its a normal thing,there's nothing wrong with that! dont let anyone tell you otherwise..
2007-07-03 11:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by raul d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that my own shallowness has kept me from great emotional pain my entire life. I love shallow women I don't have to call them or feel bad when I leave.
2007-07-03 11:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by surfbum68m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Being shallow means you are not willing to share the real you. After a while it becomes a permanent habit. If you want real love, you have to give real love, which means you can't be shallow. You have to give to get. Relationships will be meaningless if you don't learn to share the real you.
2007-07-03 11:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all shallow to some extent. We have to be attracted to a person to want to date them. But on the other hand, not everyone you date needs to look like a model.
2007-07-03 11:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not shallow your just looking for the entire package dosent hurt to be selective especially if you are looking for a long term relationship with someone
2007-07-03 11:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋