Can you please tell me if I did something stupid or freaky or is this considered normal dating? I'm not familiar with the rules of dating, I've been out of the world of dating for a while.
My boyfriend called me when I was cleaning. I didn't hear the ringing at first. Just when I grabbed the phone, the ringing stopped. Without thinking much, I called him right back. I mean, I had the phone in my hands?
Only afterwards I started thinking, if I did something stupid or freaky? Should i have waited for him to call me again, or called him back sometime later? Or is this OK? We have been exclusive about 6 weeks.
When I called him, he didn't talk long, we just made the plans we were supposed to.
2007-07-03 03:53:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would be freaky about it? You didn't make it to the phone in time, so you returned his call promptly. I don't see anything wrong with that. I would just see it as you being courteous.
2007-07-03 03:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by firstythirsty 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, Nellie!
Now you've done it! You actually CALLED HIM BACK!?!?!
He'll know exactly what kind of woman you are, now.
Ummmmmm?
I don't understand what you are talking about, kid. It is normal courtesy to return a call when you discover having missed it. Since you called back immediately, you could be sure that he was a) near his phone and b) wanting to talk to you.
Don't over-analyze. Just behave as if he were a person you respect and like and you'll do fine.
2007-07-03 10:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Both of you were thinking about each other. It sound like both of just meet not to long ago. Don't rush the relationship. Depend on your age. There a lot book about dating at library and on the internet.Get the book DATING FOR DUMMIES don't let the title scared you. It a good info. book.
2007-07-03 11:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with calling someone back right away, (most people appreciate it actually) the reality of it is that you were not able to get to the phone in time to answer it.
2007-07-03 10:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by ADB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm not a guy. But this seems like standard behavior. He calls you, you return the call. It would do that same thing with a guy I gave my number to yesterday as much as a husband.
2007-07-03 10:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. Why couldn't he have left a message instead of hanging up? I have a rule. If they call and leave a message, they get a call back. If they call and hang up and then expect me to call them back just because they are on the caller ID, they don't get a call back. Polite company breeds friendship. Rogue callers can sit alone.
2007-07-03 10:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow girl, are you stressing about nothing. Don't worry about it. Of course call right back. It's the polite and common sensical thing to do. I think his ego won't blow up too big. Relax and enjoy your relationship and don't worry about nonsense rules others want to say exist.
2007-07-03 10:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by todd s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that was fine "sorry I missed your call, I was running the vacuum". I can't see a reason why that would be the wrong thing to do after 6 weeks.
2007-07-03 10:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sweat it, there is nothing wrong with returning a guys call, especially since you guys have been dating for 6 weeks.
2007-07-03 10:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ken R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. Besides maybe that was what he wanted to talk about when he called you the first time.
2007-07-03 11:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋