if you love someone so much, do u not telll them that u cheated on them?

Question

Udont want to lose someone so just ride it off as a big mistake and just know u wont do it again,?
Im stuck c help me

Answer 1

: )If you loved them so much you do not cheat on them. It would selfish to tell them it will hurt them but maybe relieve your guilt.

Answer 2

I don't think you know what love is. You are claiming your love your bf so much but some how you met someone else and cheated. You should admit to your error in judgement, but you know that your guy is not going to take it well and it could mean the end of your relationship. Trust is a very fleeting thing and is not something you can just do on command.

Answer 3

Well, we ALL know what you SHOULD do, or what would be RIGHT to do.
That would be honesty! You can basically prove that you are sorry for a mistake by being honest and taking the heat. Especially when a person when a person may not have found out about it on their own. But if you keep it inside, you always fear being found out. That can make pressure on you immense! And that pressure can manifest itself in many ways.
I'm not familiar with your personal situation and a decision like this should not be based merely on the fact that a person may not find out about it or that a person may leave you if they know the thruth. You should also look inside yourself.

Be honest with yourself and make a decision based on what kind of person do YOU want to be.
There is something to being able to make this statement."You can say alot of things about me, but you can't say that I'm a liar." and not telling someone the whole thruth is just as good as lying. Again, you have to make your own decision. I wish You Luck!

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Answer 4

I do believe you can love someone and still have cheated if there is something missing, but i belive you shoule tell him its his right to choose if he wants to stay or not. I have been with my boyfrien for alomost six years when we got togather i already had a 15 month old son by someone else well when we broke you two years ago i got back with my sons dad all though i wanted to be with my boyfriend and when he came back and wanted me i told him that i might be pregnet with someone elses baby and he told me that he raised this guys first son he would raise this one too, so some men will forget and forgive so let him decide.

Answer 5

if u really love someone u dont cheat on them. people make mistakes yes, but to a certain point. a mistake is nothing but an excuse. i would tell him, he has a right to know. if u didnt want to lose him then u shouldnt of done what u did. suck it up and pay the price.

Answer 6

Yes tell them.
If you two have a good relationship and you just happened to make the biggest mistake you can in one, the two of you can TRY to work things out.
They may decide that you arn't worth their time anymore, but that's your fault for cheating. If they find out later they WILL leave because you cheated and then hid it.

If you have faith in your relationship and respect for your partner you WILL tell them, NOW.

Answer 7

That is a tough decision..if you don't tell him and he finds out you will probably lose him and he will hate you..but if you tell him you might lose him anyway and he still may hate you..the only difference is that if you tell him,you will no longer have to carry that burden...you really need to think about this long and hard..think about the consequences and put yourself in his shoes would you forgive you?would you wanna know?would you want him to tell you himself or would you rather find out another way?Both ways are painful but when someone confesses to you you won't have to deal with the embarrassment and shock if you find out through another source...think it through and try to make it as painless as possible...if he loves you he might be able to forgive you if you are remorseful

Answer 8

If you think that it won't happen again, don't tell!!! Sometimes it makes us understand how much we actually love cheated person, at least I felt that way once! There are some things that we should keep for ourselves, for the benefit of the relationship.

Answer 9

If you love someone you don't cheat on them. Sometimes things like this has a way of eating away at you until you ruin the relationship yourself out of guilt.

Answer 10

if you really love someone you will tell them the truth. Yes the truth is going to hurt, but it is better to come clean..then to leave it for them to find out later. Usually finding something out later is more upsetting than just being out with it straight up. It will be for the significiant other to decide on what they want to do next.

Answer 11

Keep it to yourself.never,never admit anything like that.It will end up being a big purple gorilla in the corner.Plus it will hurt your Loved one,What will you gain? He/she will loose respect for you and think about it when you make love.They will see you in a different light,Not flattering at all.Then you are giving them a free pass to cheat on you,payback.ain't fun.