I haven't really had the feeling of liking a guy since i was really little, you know always dreaming and thinking about him and getting that shy and wonderful feeling everytime he walked by. Im 17 now and i don't really know anyone i like. I am terribly lonely and would like to start going with someone again but i want someone who truly cares about me, and i don't know what to do. Should i just try going with someone i some what like? Will i ever get that feeling again?
2007-07-03 02:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt exactly the way you felt all my 4 years of high school. Now that I just graduated, I feel that I should wait for someone to come my way, and deal with it then. But in my case, I liked other guys, but they never liked me back, so I was just stuck with these feelings for them until someone else came along. If you feel that you can handle it, then you should go out with a few other guys that you might not like as much, but the only thing I can say about that is that you may just be hurting the other person, because no one wants to me dated just 'because'. I think you will definitely get that feeling again, but you may want to wait a little longer for that somebody you get that 'feeling' with...Good luck!!
2007-07-03 02:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brit B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you are concerned about his happiness (love) or when you want him to touch you (lust). You are just turned off. You needed to open up more. Take some risks. The easiest way, however, to get over this deadness, is just find some guy(s) to hang out with and be friends with. Go have some fun with guys. It doesn't have to have any feelings, just fun. The feelings will come when the right guy sparks your feelings. Then fan the flame, and bingo, the earth moves and the sky rockets take off. Luck.
2007-07-03 09:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling very well :)
but you have to make sure you not only like him because he just handsome!!! You can try to know someone but you have to keep your feeling and your heart well as you can, because you have to make sure he like you the same.
If you only like him but he did not like you that the problem.
Any way love is so beautiful . You have to tell yourself always about do not hurt if the man leave you!! because this way can happen you have to be strong and I believe you have someone interesting in you but maybe you did not know that.
If you meet the real love you will have peace in your heart and will not worry anything :) God bless.
2007-07-03 10:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with just anyone! I mean, yea, you should like a person before you go out with them, and I do mean the kind of like you're talking about, but I recommend you hang around with this guy for a while before you date to see what he's like. You don't want to go out with someone who's arrogant, or rude, someone who just doesnt care about anything.
2007-07-03 09:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There’s a difference between a regular guy, and a decent guy. A regular guy treats you like a beautiful flower, one that smells nice, and is very attractive and desirable. A decent guy will treat you like a princess, and obey as he interacts with you. Remember, the princess will one day rule, a flower wilts and dies.
Hold out for that decent guy.
2007-07-03 09:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by davew/ad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you like someone! And you shouldn't go out with someone just to "get this feeling". It's pointless, it can't be forced. You will find someone that is perfect for you eventually! Hang in there! =)
2007-07-03 09:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me....stay single. Relationships are full of endless uncertainty, but you know that you will ALWAYS be able to get along with yourself. In today's society, singleness is your best bet.
2007-07-03 10:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by deejay1620 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time will come b patient . I felt the same way and that's the time when it happens mostly!
2007-07-03 09:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating.Find out who is right for you.Don't settle for just anyone.If he isn't your Knight in armor you ll know the right one because you just fell in love with him.....good luck......
2007-07-03 09:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by andydandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋