I really like this guy and we are friends but I want to get to know him more. I am going to a pool party and whats a good way to get to know him more?And does anyone have any flirting tips?
2007-07-03 02:27:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about not flirting and just talking to him?
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2007-07-11 00:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going to this pool party? If so, this is your chance to make a move at this fella! If you're already friends, you shouldn't have a hard time talking to him. If you want to get to know him more, just ask him questions and start up a conversation about his interest and dreams! BE CONFIDENT! As for flirting tips, look into his eyes when you are talking, that way he'll know you are interested in him and what he has to say! BE YOURSELF!
2007-07-11 01:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an information system on him what he likes and what he doesn't. As for flirt by a pool, Not hard at all just get a nice, good looking on you bathing suit, be near him, smile, be confident, look in the eye, be yourself.
2007-07-11 09:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is make sure he sees you looking at him. Once he sees you looking at him, give him a smile and go back to what you were doing. Repeat this several times and then he should get the clue and come over to you and start a conversation. If he does not walk over to him and ask how things are going. DO NOT DRESS SKANKY OR ACT SLUTTY. He will get the wrong idea. Be a lady because ladies are far more attractive than sluts.
2007-07-10 17:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by $$ bLatAntLy fLagRant $$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be tricky, especially if you want to be friends if it does not get more serious. I would dress in a sexy swim suit, but keep it covered until most everyone in swimming. When talking to him - a simple touch, on thigh, back, or hold his upper arm. If there is anything there he will get the message. Just don't try to be the center on attention at the party. SIMPLE ELEGANCE.
2007-07-03 09:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by MIKE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to out flirt all the other girls at the pool party. Also be graceful enough not to freak out if he starts hitting on another girl. Good luck!
2007-07-10 12:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
b CONFIDENT!!! first make eye contact from afar. lock that eye contact. showing him that u r interested. then smile a bit like a flirty smile and then keep talking to the person that u were talking to. if he doesn approach u afterwards. then approach him and say hey THIS IS A GREAT PARTY!! or HAVING FUN? sutmhing easy that u know will b the start of a good convo. good luck.
2007-07-11 00:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by **R** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get to the party go up to him and give him a hug make it little longer than a usual hug. and stay around him the whole night. see if theres a way if he could take you home. in vite him in and go to the tv room and chat or play a game or something. and dont do nohting else. try to kiss him though and get him to ask you out on a romantic date.
2007-07-11 09:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by grumpyjen28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act really confident.. smile alot.. and just talk smoothly and be yourself. ask him questions about himself
guys really like confidence.
just act calm and collected and be yourself but at the same time, try to show a sense of humor.
2007-07-11 06:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a trenchcoat w nuttin on under it...lol j/p!! ehh talk 2 him alot but dont follow him around...make jokes....try 2 liven up every1 at t party...do crazy things off the divin board...then ask 4 suggestions....b lk HEy (boys name) wat should i do next? tht way it can b flirty and b lk No way! thts 2 hard ..then say lk how hard ull b when im finished w u.....hahahahaha
2007-07-11 02:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweetswish11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋