i feel suicidal?

Question

i feel really suicidal, my girlfriend broke up with me, she left for another guy...

thansk alot, i really felt better after reading all those comments =)

Answer 1

go to therapist

Answer 2

Dear Cy
I know exactly how you feel but nothing is worth that believe me...I have serious spinal problems my spine is literally collapsing and am in terrible pain, my boyfriend says its over, I am about to lose about 60% of my salary; anyway I was at the station the other day and really felt like throwing myself under a train but then I thought it is not worth it things will get better.Somebody saw me crying and shaking and helped me..a complete stranger.You see there are good people out there and you will feel better.Please speak to others and trust in the fact that you will be ok and realise this is just a horrible phase that will pass.A big hug.She is not worth you and could never make you happy.

Answer 3

You don't need to kill yourself because your girlfriend left you.

If she left then she wasn't right for you. If you love her then you'll be happy that she is happy (Even with someone else).

You need to be happy in yourself. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. You managed to go through life before you met her so why can't you continue to go through life without her.

Just do the things you didn't get to do when you were with her. Stuff that she didn't like you doing or stuff that she didn't enjoy so you couldn't do it together.

I bet you'll meet someone new doing something you like in no time at all.

If you still feel like this after a couple of days, talk to your friends or even your doctor. Don't throw it all away for nothing.

I hope you come through this dark time in your life and emerge the other side a stronger person. Be well.

Answer 4

Serious concern! should get professional help! But, when you think about it, girlfriends come and go, ending your life will just ensure that she wont come back to you! I can honestly feel your pain, but nothing/no-one is worth taking your life over. Every thing happens for a reason, and I'd say that the reason is simply that she is not right for you! chin up, deep breaths, and move on to a better life. The pain of a break up will ease with time, just give it a while.

Answer 5

Its normal to feel sad when you have a break up....please just take a minute to evaluate yourself and realize there is much more to life than a woman!! I've gone through lots of breakups it only makes you stronger in the end. People come into our lives for seasons at a time. People teach us what we need for that moment then they leave.......it may not make sense now but God is working behind the scenes for your own good always! =) Cheer up and go out and do something fun today you'll feel better........take care!!

Answer 6

i no that sits hard but you will have to move on.she very obviously didnt deserve you.and if you suicidal over her she deffinately didnt deserve you.look onh the brightside if shes like that she will probably leave her next boyfriend too.People move on.she probably wanted to try someting diferant but she may realise she odesnt want differant and misses you.its probably just a phase.It happens babe.please dont get too cut up about it.your worth more than that.And anyway dont give her the satisfaction of letting her see you care so much.girls hate a push over.they like a challenge.shes obviously not the right girl for you if she left.go out with friends.you may not want to but they are the most important right now.and you may realise once you out with them that you having fun and may forget her for a minute or so.go out and met new people and that may take your mind off it. But please dont kill yourself.its not worth it.you could find a girl even better in time.you ought to stick around to find out eh?and dont listen to any of your songs. and cry.its good to cry.because it does make you feel better.

wow.you really care.i hope when my time comes my husband will be as sensitive and caring as you.i really do.

be strong.SHE is the lesser person not you.prove to her you are stronge than she thinks come out the other side looking like you havent a care in the world.

good luck sweetie.xxxx

Answer 7

I feel your pain.
There really are few reasons to take your life. Grief is understandable, and you ought to take things slowly. The few times I felt as bad as you, I also thought that there will be a better day, a happier day-and there were many. This time will pass-talk to someone, go outside for a moment and feel the sunshine on your face.
Your life is so important.

Answer 8

Don't do anything, this will pass. I know it hurts now, but believe me with time it will get better. There is too much life out there to be lived. Go see the world. So if she did go to another guy, just say "next" and go on to another girl or like I said, go see the world. There is too much in life to experience.

Answer 9

Any girl that would leave you for another person isn't worth the time it would take to commit suicide. Never make someone your everything because when they leave you have nothing. Learn to be happy with yourself and by yourself because people come and go too often to be down after each departure. Be the best YOU and someone will recognize and love you for it.

Answer 10

Let us call it depression and if she left for another guy you should be happy!

I would rather lose a girlfriend than be married to a woman who cheats on me. I will bet 100% promise you that you will meet a perfect women and be so happy that you were single when she came into your life.

Don't feel bad over some stupid girl there are so many wonderful ladies who would love to be with you.

Answer 11

Talk to someone about it, don't chuck it in or make decisions like that while you are not thinking straight (which it sounds like you are not). Think about your family and friends and how hurt they would be, much worse than you are hurting now. Get some help from someone to get through this. Life it valuable, and you should be able to feel better about this situation with time, even if it might not seem like it. Good luck.