im interested in a guy and he is obivously interested in me too. I want to talk with him, but im so shy. So when im managed to go to him, what should i say? Where should i begin? i dont want to say im interested in you, i think this is too cheap.
So can anyone give me some suggestions for topics or something? thanks a lot
2007-07-02 23:38:24 · 25 answers · asked by CandiceC. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh i forgot to tell you that he came to me and trying to talk with me (nearly a year ago), but at this time i wasnt interested. And now i guess that he dont want to go to me, because he had try it already and failed.
The funny thing is that i am sure that he is still interested in me.
2007-07-02 23:53:19 · update #1
actually the guy isnt shy at all, he is very popular at my school. He knows lots if people.
2007-07-02 23:58:38 · update #2
oh im pleased that i helped you to earn your ******* 2 points! piss off @chelsea
2007-07-04 07:35:09 · update #3
hey if the guy is still interested in you then what is the problem, just tell him, if u don't want to say that u are interested then just begin with casual talks and then tell him that u have kinda started liking him.
the other way is to become friends first, u should know first of all that why u didn't like him earlier n what has turned u on now............... try to be friendly with him maybe he will understand what u are upto, or tell him through ur common friends that u like him, but i think u should talk to him straight.
So just be cool, telling someone that u are interested isn't cheap at all but u just need to find the right way of doing it.
2007-07-09 17:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by saumya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. For me, I still believe in a traditional way. I believe that guys should always make the first move. If you are confident that he also likes you then be patient time will come you will be surprise that he will just show up in front of you talking with you. Its better that way for you will appreciate it more and you will really see how interrested is he to you just by finding ways to talk to you. So don't bother your mind thinking how to make a first move. what you should do now is be ready when that day comes. For sure right now he is also asking for advice to how to talk with you. Good luck Girl!!!
2007-07-03 06:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by elyzia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just need to walk up to him and tell him what you feel. Or go and ask his phone number. So when you call him, just tell him that you called to say HI and that you were thinking of him. Also tell him that you intend to write a letter to him which you will do in a day or two. After that, just dont correspond for about 2-3 weeks. His reaction will tell you all. After that, make that giant leap and make him yours forever. If you think this is it for you, go for it. Since he is popular like you mentioned, he is pretty much "already" hooked or "just about to be" hooked types. Good Luck Sweets....
2007-07-07 05:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok...ignore the ones that use u for your two points ok there jus jealouse of you,
So anyway this guy that you are wanting to be with,all you have to do iss be you,jus go up to him and say 'hey' and it goes on from there ask him hows hes been?things like that,then jus cordualy ask do you have a girlfriend?,and if he says no,tell him that befor you didnt realize what great a guy he was and would like a second chance...and await the answer,I wish you best of luck
2007-07-10 14:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I think u already an intelligent gl and have no need of help. However as per ur additional information I have come to know that u r a school student and have no need for a b/f till u have to get ur carrier. I suggest you not to think about the guys make concentration and take care of ur carrier. There is so many chances u would get in life when guys will in your path and you would have to choose one of them as per your choice. so; forget him and take concentration towards ur carrier
2007-07-10 00:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by loving_human 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your presumtion about him are very contradictory.
If he is interested he will come to you
you say now he is not interested
then you say he is itnerested
then you say you did not take interest.
then you presume that you will be engaged.
then you say you are shy.
then you say you will be married to him what will you say
Look if you are shy how will you get engaged and married to him
if is not interested in you how will you make him interested. and engaged.
First be clear then question of marriage and shy etc will be automatically be solved
girls are always shy and boys help them remove shyness once you both are married . and on honeymoon. shyness will vanish with the clothes .
2007-07-10 04:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi friend if ur love is true, he is going to be a lucky one bcz love is not a easy thing nowadays, Its seems he is shy too. why dont u express ur love in letter or SMS through mobile? I suggest that this will do very soon,,,,,BEST OF LUCK
bye
2007-07-03 06:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Faiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see him often? if so just say "hey man how ya doing?" "long time no see", just ask him whats he been up to, casual talk. like with your work, just say if youre in the neighborhood stop by. smile real pretty and give him a quick hug and say alright see ya around sometime. walk off, straight and confident, give him a sec to think of what just happened.
2007-07-11 06:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by humnbirdgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What make you interested in the guy : Just appreciate that and be normal in talk. Slowly, shyness will turn into sickness.
2007-07-03 06:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do any thing Keep continuity of association and every thing will take in natural manner. It is the body and eyes that speak.
2007-07-11 01:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by baboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋