I got my sister pregnant what do I do?

Question

Well we both know that this was wrong! So please don't tell us the law! We know! We are both over 18 and got a bit drunk at a UNI party and the next thing we know we started fooling around and we are now in this situation where she is 6 weeks pregnant! How do we tell our parents? We don't believe in abortion so that isn't an option! What will our friends think?

Is it possible to secretly marry her and move to another country?

Answer 1

Are you being serious? If you are I'm in so much shock to be honest.

It's not about you now, it's about your niece/nephew/daughter/son. Have you thought about the effects of inbreeding? There is still a possibility your child can come out healthy but what about it's life with you and it's mother? Will you tell it the truth? What about when it's growing and being bullied at school?

You guys need to think about this seriously and discuss it as a family about the implications this should cause and not ask people on here what you should do - it's your life and your thinking of bringing an innocent baby into all of this!

Here's a link about inbreeding

http://www.as.wvu.edu/~kgarbutt/QuantGen/Gen535_2_2004/Inbreeding_Humans.htm

& next time think twice about how much alcohol you consume!!!!!!

Answer 2

Oh wow...
I think the first thing to do (if in fact you're serious) is tell your parents. If your family is tight knit and private, you don't really need to worry about them telling anyone. Just raise the baby as the close uncle. However, if you're parents are the type that like to gossip to the whole neighborhood-I wouldn't even tell them. Just stick close by your sister and help her raise the baby.
While she's pregnant, make sure she gets good medical care. You want to be sure early on that the baby is developing healthy and that it's free of birth defects. Don't let any medical personnel know that your the father, unless you completely trust them, because they might try and turn you both into the child protection agency. Just be careful. As the old saying goes; Loose lips sink ships.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

First, I would like to just make a comment. If any one answering this --who so much as criticized you--if they have never made a mistake--well, they are lying.
Yes, you do have a problem. Moving somewhere --maybe not another country--but somewhere might be a good idea. Even if you don't get married--just live together--your last name should be the same--who would know. Live there a few years--maybe--just see what time has in store for you. Get your heads together--time gives us answers sometimes.--seems to work things out. Maybe not even tell the parents--just say you both are leaving for a while??? Just think logically here. It can be done. And you both can do this. It may be the hardest thing you will ever face--lets hope so. good luck to you both and the baby-and God Bless.

Answer 4

First find out if you're parents are related cos maybe that's where you got you're mental illness from.... abortion is legal, do you honestly believe it's ok to sleep with your sister but not ok to have an abortion? here's the thing........2 wrongs make a right............... Have the abortion you can't really care about human life that much that you would put a child's life at risk (probably won't come out retarded - but inbred children are more suceptible to life threatening illnessess so it probably won't survive) do some research on Charles Darwin, he married his cousin and 3 of his kids died early on in life!

DO NOT HAVE THIS BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If it survives....
Child in early age - parents are hated by family and society,
Child in school - no friends - parents are inbreeders
Child in teens - runs away and never tells a soul about his upbringing or turns to drugs to escape the reality that his parents are f****d in the head.

You'll both end up in jail if you go through with it too.

Answer 5

Your ****** put it that way.How the hell did ya have sex with ya sister?Even if ya blinding drunk ya should know its ya sister god i go out with my brother and get drunk but i don`t shag him anyway ya must tell ya parents and im sure they`ll go mad and maybe tell your sister to get rid of it but either way tell them babies dont go away.I dont believe in abortion but if i was in your shoes i would do it.If it gets out you`ll be classed as a pervert and do ya really want that you probs would have to move away your parents will be ashamed.To me abortion is the easy option that way you dont have to tell your parents anything just get on with your lives and forget about it.That or be a dad and a uncle at same time.
Anyway good luck in what ever you do hope everything turns out ok

Answer 6

You seem to think the law is a "rule." It is not, you may wind up in jail, just to begin with. Incest is illegal because it has been demonstrated to create the worst genetic results.
As to what to say to your parents. You are just going to have to be straight with them. Perhaps you could talk to your mother, alone. And your sister could talk to your father, alone -at the same time.

After you tell them what you have done, shut your mouth and take everything they say to you, no matter how bad it is. Comment only when they ask you a question or leave an opening. Do not defend what you did. If you are old enough to drink, you are old enough to take this time to mature. And do it seriously.

Have genetic testing done for the child as soon as possible.

Answer 7

wow!
U gonna have to talk to Ur parents, other then that there's nothing u can do. Specially if u don't want an abortion.
And who cares about what Ur friends will say, u have a bigger problem now, then Ur friends. They come and go and they always gonna judge u, but the baby will stay forever!!!

Think about it and talk to each other and then go and tell Ur parents everything!!!!

Good luck with it, and stay strong!!!

Answer 8

Gosh! really shocking! Telling your parents that you're pregnant with your bf is very hard, but this one is very tough! Actually I dont know the law, but still you have to tell them coz they have the answers. They're the only one who can help you. Just be ready to catch your mom if she fainted. Goodluck guys!

Answer 9

Right, I think you know this is SO WRONG!!!! OMG!! So I won't lecture you. First of all, friends are Friends and true Friends will stick around if you're in trouble. Same with your parents. You and you sister need to sit them down and tell them bluntly. "Mum, Dad... I'm sorry but I got drunk at a party and now my sis (insert her name) is pregnant. Please forgive us." And once the baby is born you'll have to look after it!!

Good luck man!!

Answer 10

This is totally not right i go out drinking and clubbing partying and messing joking and play fighting with my older brother!But we would never ever take the relationship tha we have got any futher then that because he is my brother flesh and blood.Im very sorry but you got your sister pregnant and you dont belive in abortion.I CANT HELP!!