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except some people that i don't really like including my family. i'm not good at anything and i'm fat and ugly. what should i do?

2007-07-02 22:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

9 answers

Lose some weight, you'll probably feel better automatically, which might be causing you to feel depressed.

2007-07-02 22:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by August lmagination 5 · 0 0

Dont be bitter. Your family loves you and you love them but you may not like them i guess but they may be the best friends you have. Anyways as to ur bein fat, only u can help yourself. Lose weight if it bothers you and to be healthy. If you're healthy in body, then you're happy in soul i guess.remember that its inner beauty that counts. If you're good looking and evil inside, you will still not have friends.
As for being ugly, remember that beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
Join a club or group with common interests like you. You definitely make friends that way. Take up on a hobbby.
There must be something you're good at. Maybe you have a wonderful gift of kindness or empathy. Or you're creative or dramatic. Im sure you know what it is but dont have the confidence to admit it.
It may not be that people dont like you, maybe they just dont know you. GIve others to let them know the real you. Dont pretend to be someone else. Be yourself. If ur true self is repulsive(like u dribble ice cream down ur shirt), be fake in the beginning and then reveal ur colors a little by little:) Okay just kidding.Good luck with making new friends. Never lose hope and dont try too hard. Sometimes you find friends in the strangest places.....

2007-07-03 05:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 1 · 0 0

You need to get rid of that negative self image. You need professional help.

Even if you are indeed fat and ugly, you have a good brain and a beatiful heart. A person doesn't live or love by looks alone.

We love you since you are a child of God.

2007-07-03 06:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0 0

Ok, pay no attention to the last answer... unless you believe you're unhealthy from lack of movement and exercise, which can cause you to become depressed. You should try changing your beliefs about yourself, because the thought (which probably is not true) that you're supposedly "fat and ugly" is probably projecting negative energy within and around yourself.

2007-07-03 05:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by humanponygirl213 1 · 0 0

be positive and stop speaking negatively about yourself.first before anybody else loves you, love yourself and accept your wellbeing am fat too so you are not the only fat person on eatrh .nobody is good at something unless you try it why do you hate your family?

2007-07-03 06:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by mesy 1 · 0 0

start liking the people whom you do not like as they might be feeling the same thing as you do not like them..
About fat and ugly .. stop sulking about being fat at start spending time with your family and friends .. it will burn off as your activities increase.

2007-07-03 05:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Capt. Nemo 3 · 0 0

I LIKE YOU!!!
Believe me or not!
There are no reasons for me to dislike you - so i LIKE you!!!
You are not unique!
It's normal to hate your family, friends... from time to time (they are not perfect themselves, all in all!)
All people regularly think that they are ugly and fat (even models, who are 45kg and 177cm tall are sure that they must loose weight!)

What should you do:
think of something you like in yourself (there must be something!!!) (your smile/ hair/ nice toes/ your good jokes/ kindness...? - think of something!!! You better know yourself!) - and concentrate on that good thing! No one but you possesses it!

2007-07-03 06:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandra L 2 · 0 0

Learn to like, no LOVE yourself!! Your confidence will sky rocket, and others will see it, confidence attracts confidence! I'm sure you have a lot of great qualities, your weight is not a measure of your personality if you don't let it! focus on your positives and others will too!

2007-07-03 09:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by clarebare1975 3 · 0 0

It's on your own if somebody likes you or not. some guys like somthin and others dont. dont take it so serious dude.

2007-07-03 05:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky_dude 4 · 0 0

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