Ok so me and my girlfriend live on opposite sides of town, 30 minute drive to her house, with traffic about an hour. Plus i work days from 7a.m. to 5:30p.m. and she works nights from 9p.m. to 8a.m. and her job is about 45 minutes from her house making it about 90 minutes from mine so if she comes over after i get off she can only stay for less than an hour. we both work saturdays so thats out and sunday she sleeps all day from working nights and i have to go to bed early for monday so not alot of time to spend together. and now it seems like are phone conversations are becoming less, because she calls me on her lunch break so shes talking to me and her friends at the sametime. I just want to do something to show her how much i miss her and i much i love her but i'm drawing a blank. cant do flowers at work because she works nights, I need more ideas. We only really get to see each other about once every 2 weeks so i want to do something that will blow her off her feet. thank you
2007-07-02 21:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur right! I've always preferred to date guys without a job so he's be home anytime I called. Get a dayshift girl or a nightshift job....move closer...make your days off the same...take a vacation day with her??? Go eat a waffle house...they're always open and one of you will need breakfast sometime! Meet each other on breaks...If one of you works say Tuesday but the iother one is off...let the one that off show up at the job site with Subway sandwiches or Pizza and have a " quick picnic"!
2007-07-02 21:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, one of two things you need to do is to rearrange your schedule to better fit your girlfriends schedule. Don't tell me you can't, thats just not true. If you love this girl that much it wont be a problem. If you boss is so inflexible as not to understand the problem then it is time to find a different job Closer to your Girlfriend.
That would be point two. If you find a different Job closer to the girlfriend then also find housing closer to her. Im not saying move in together, that gets awkward, just someplace within a few minutes drive of her.
Do those two things and you will truly "blow her off her feet"!
2007-07-02 21:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 13:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by rhynes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is time to find a centrally located place, and move in together. Then you can meet her at the door when she gets home on Sunday, have a nice Champagne breakfast ready, a romantic card, and some beautiful flowers on the table. Have a nice bubble bath ready too!
You would also have more time in the afternoons.
I work nights 11PM-7AM, so I know the feeling. My first day off is always wasted, it seems. I do, however, find a bit of time in the morning when I get off. That time is like your evening is to you. That is why I suggested the breakfast rendezvous.
2007-07-02 22:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can afford a weekend getaway, it could be a great way to spend some intimate time with her. Tell her you want to take a trip and try to find out if she can take off work. If things continue this way, I don't see the relationship lasting. If it is going to work, you guys have to both agree to make time to be together.
Good luck.
2007-07-02 21:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋