Recently, I had started talking to my ex girlfriend again from two years ago. We hadn't talked in the two years but we talked for a while and hung out a few times and we were getting along. Then she had to go to camp for three weeks. She called me for the first time tonight, and all she really said was, "This kid Max walked in on me naked. Are you jealous?" or, "We're playing strip poker right now. Are you jealous?" This really annoys me that she'd call and have only that to say. She isn't one to do this, generally being very prude and innocent.
Why is she doing this? How should I respond?
2007-07-02
20:11:21
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thesecretis25
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➔ Singles & Dating
She's making you jealous. Or just playing with you. But either way she wants your attention in some way because she keeps calling you. If this isn't the normal way she acts she might be doing this as a desperate and drastic measure to get your attention because she doesn't know how else to.
Or she might be calling you to impress her friends that she has someone to call and tease. Possibly.
If you don't like her back that way, don't answer the phone when she calls. Or, force her to talk about something else so she'll stay on the line longer if you're annoyed that she'll only try to make you jealous and hang up.
2007-07-02 20:18:01
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answered by Anonymous
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That is the stupidest thing a girl can do...
I suggest you break off this "relationship", because you don't wanna spend your days with a girl saying that all the time. But in my opinon, she is insecure and trying to make sure you like her. If you respond in jealousy, she might feel better but what good is that for you?...
2007-07-02 20:15:30
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answered by Anonymous
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She wants to make you jealous because she probably has some left over feelings.
edit: I didn't answer the second question! Sorry. Anyways- just tell her your NOT jealous and ask her why she wants you to be. THAT should get her stuck.
2007-07-02 20:13:45
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answered by Robot♥Ninja xXx 2
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Respond like a friend, dude. Just say no, my guess is she is just playing with you, i doubt she has feelings for you. Not love definitely. Just reply n a cool, fun, friendly way. Both of you are friends right? Stay that way, it is always the best. Good luck! =)
2007-07-02 20:19:18
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answered by anna 4
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Don't fall for it man. She's got some left over feelings and she's tryin to bring you back in only to crush you like an ant later on.
Why? Because she's the "prude" and "innocent" type. I say move on my friend, move on.
2007-07-02 20:15:53
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answered by Nite Net 1
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shes probably making things up to make you jealous. the next time she calls don't answer. or you could call her and do the same thing that she does to you. you could say that you had a stripper at your house and ask her if she is jealous.good luck!
=) amanda
2007-07-02 20:18:37
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answered by a_m_a_n_d_a 2
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Maybe she has some new stupid friends and now she thinks those types of behaviours are cool, I seen that plenty of times
2007-07-02 20:17:05
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answered by multicurious 3
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she misses u, just completely ignore her, she just dont seem rite trying 2 make u jealous.
2007-07-02 20:16:31
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answered by ♪♥§♫Arizona Chick♫§♥♪ 5
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ya she probably has some feelings left for you and is trying to make you jealous...but it sounds to me like she is a total Biatch....Or she is just messing with you...if she does it again then before she can say anything say like I'm busy with my gf or something like that...play the same game...but idk in my opnion she sounds like "Biatch"
2007-07-02 20:17:34
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answered by Evilhomer089 2
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if youre over her, just ignore it.
thats really immature.
if you actually still like her, dont respond, just spark up conversation later.
2007-07-02 20:14:43
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answered by brian f 2
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