well here goes! in lieu of the other questions that i've asked, here is the situation! i decided to stay with my man after everything that we have been though! but i found out that he was still flirting with other women and that we even went out and met this girl! he told her that we were just friends and that he really liked her and found her attractive! poor girl knew nothing about me! he lied to me and her about each other! when i confronted him, he stated that this is the way that he attempts to find new friends which i know is a crock of poop! i know that i need to leave him but i love him too much! how should i handle this situation?
2007-07-02 20:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hurt now but let him realize what a d*ck brain he is and regret losing you forever...and believe me, he WILL want you back (He obviously doesn't realize what he has), or hurt later....when he hurts you even more, doesn't learn anything, and continues his selfish ways. I know it's such a hard thing to do, but if you want to come out on top in the end, you have to do it. This guy DOESN'T deserve you.
You can be the girl that stops him in his tracks and makes him change his ways...and keep this from happening to other girls. Sometimes doing the right thing hurts like hell but in the end you will be much happier.
2007-07-02 20:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this, how can you love someone who clearly does not have the same kind of love for you? Honestly, I think you deserve a lot better than this. There are a lot of other guys out there and you might realize that you truly don't love this guy like you think you do. If you stick around, you are only letting him take advantage of you. Besides, what makes you believe that he won't continue meeting more women? You're only letting him know that he's got you on a string and he can do whatever he wants. Ditch him! You're stronger than this.
2007-07-03 03:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out why you can my x that i was getting married too in about 7 months cheated on me with his x well i forgive him then he cheated on me again with his first cuz. once an cheater always a cheater. the only person getting hurt in the end is you not him if he cared then he would not do that to you some guys just like to see how many girls they can have at once. dont let him hurt you. it will be hard at first but you will move on
2007-07-03 03:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that,
i know what you mean when you say you wanna lv but you feel you can't cos you love him.
But just try and find something to do, go out with your girlfriends and try have fun
keep your distance, like if you saw each other three times a day try and cut down to 2 then 1 and in no time it will be none.
it's very hard when one has to let go but you have to try and do it some how.....
I wish you well:-)
2007-07-03 03:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by cry baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick 'em to the curb girl...
If he's just meeting himas friends now... in a while he'll be lying to you about where he is when he's sleeping with them..
Just move on..
It will only get worse and then you'll get hurt worse then than you would if you just left him now..
2007-07-03 03:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by **~ Eeyore~** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. Seriously. If he's still doing this stuff he's not going to stop.
2007-07-03 03:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ginseng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
key words? crock of poop! get rid of him. his respect for you stinks.
2007-07-03 03:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, LEAVE HIM. Yeah, you love him, but he OBVIOUSLY doesn't care that much about you, or he wouldn't be doing this crap to you. LEAVE HIM.
2007-07-03 03:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by femme_bot23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he is meeting new women, it means he isnt interested in u or u just aint enough. he's a playa, u dont need him!
2007-07-03 03:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♪♥§♫Arizona Chick♫§♥♪ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he contune to do it again you know that as well as me in my opion?
2007-07-03 03:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋