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I broke up with my girlfriend after going around with her for 3 and half years. I tried to find out the exact reason for our break-up but was unsuccessful. She is not into talking terms with me for reasons best known to herself. I tried contacting her many a times but she is not picking up the call nor answering to my messages. I begged her to forgive me if at all I have done any mistake. She was not at all ready to patch up with me. Its been six months that we have met and almost 2 months that we spoke to each other. Tomorrow is her birthday, shall I send her a birthday message? Is there any chances of she responding to my message and patch up again? I love her very much and could not forget her. Please advise.

2007-07-02 18:53:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

15 answers

God! This is Awful!!! SEND!!!!! Go for it! What do you have to lose?
If you want to get back together with her, she will certainly be REALLY PISSED if you forget her birthday!

Send a bouquet of White roses, with a bunch of babies breath, and a small Teddie Bear, and a Mylar balloon stating "HAPPY BIRTHDAY."

If she does not respond, then YOU KNOW SHE IS AN IDIOT, and not for YOU at all!
xoxoxoxooxxo

2007-07-02 22:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0 0

Please do send Birth Day Greetings to your girl friend ( do not use the word 'ex' as of now).

It may be a temporary break or permanant but still you and she moved with each other for 3 and half years. Considering that and your present state of mind for her you must send without expecting anything in return and that is the true love if at all you claim so!!

Be Blessed.

2007-07-02 22:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Marks 3 · 0 1

Hmm. Tough one.

I think I would leave a phone message. Bring up some other topics too, like maybe, 'hows work going' and tell her that you miss her, and you hope you two can carry on to be friends.

2007-07-02 18:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by kelli:) 2 · 0 0

Yes, go ahead and send her a friendly message. But you should not expect to get back together after 6 months apart.

2007-07-02 18:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I'm sorry to inform you of this but you need to move on and leave her alone! she obviously felt that your relationship couldn't go any farther. She is trying to get rid of you, do not call her or leave any messages she may start turning you in as a stalker. There is a special woman out there for you, hope you find her soon!

2007-07-02 19:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 1 · 1 1

Just write a casual mail but dont talk about ur past. Ask about her life and well being just tell her u want to be frns with her. See how she replies, but give her time. When she is all ok and back to her old self then ask her what went wrong.Good luck

2007-07-02 19:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 0 1

No, move on. She has. Sorry. Breakups are hard. You could call and leave a quick happy birthday. Don't gush. Play it cool if you do. Good luck.

2007-07-02 18:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by 123 2 · 0 1

You should still send birthday wishes to your ex. There's a possibility she might reply back just to thank you but at least you've got something.

2007-07-02 18:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by mkate888 1 · 0 2

If you could not forget her then send her a card. but why you are rushing behind her who is not interested in you. you could find a better partner so wait and see

2007-07-02 19:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

i say go for it! i did the same once 6 years ago and i knew deep down inside i still was in love and we got back together and have been since. its the small things that count and she will feel that i bet.

2007-07-02 18:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by free taco 1 · 0 1

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