i feel my soul is leaving me ......
2007-07-02 17:04:32 · 34 answers · asked by gengen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Asthma attacks are more often fatal than people realize. I can't imagine the pain and loss you feel. I hope your friends and family are supporting you in this tragic time. Since he is and always will be a part of your soul, what you feel is the soul ascending (his soul) from his mortal body. But that also means to me, that he will be able to be near you forever. Please accept my most sincere and genuine condolences. If you need a shoulder, you may email me.
2007-07-02 17:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-27 13:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! I am so very sorry to read about your loss! I cannot imagine losing a child, no matter the age! My heart weeps for you. However, I have lost both parents and both my siblings...I am the only one left! So, I do know something about loss.
Everyone grieves differently and so, I truly don't have advise for you. The only helpful things I can offer is that it is okay to feel all the emotions which charge up, in your heart! Also, it helps me to remember what each would want me to do...to carry on.
By the way, my cousin died from a severe asthma attack as the ambulance did not make it to her in time. I suppose her nebulizer did not work for her. But, I can tell you that asthma has taken the life of another, my cousin.
I do not know you but, I will be praying for you. Know that I do care and I am so very sorry for your loss and pain.
God Bless
2007-07-02 17:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. It goes against the natural order of things to lose a child. You need to be in contact with others who have gone through the death of a child, they are the only ones that know exactly how you feel and can comfort you in a way that most of us cannot. As time passes your pain will lessen even if it never goes away. Take the time to cherish your memories of your son and find peace. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-07-02 17:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. I lost my first grand baby a little over 4 years ago. She was 5 months old. She was my oldest daughter's first baby. I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I won't tell you the old cliche' that time heals all wounds, or that it gets better with time. I still feel all the pain I felt when she first died. She would be 5 years old July 31st & every year her birthday is hard. I can tell you that you learn how to survive. You learn how to embrace the pain & how to use the love you had for that person to help you heal. Some days will be harder than others & at times you will feel like you want to die but you have to relearn how to live. I am so sorry for your loss & I wish I could hug you right now. Look for a support group for parents who have lost children or find one of your family members you can share your pain with who won't make your pain more intense with their own. I know you are probably angry with God right now but that is the one who you need the most. He lost His Son too. I can honestly say that I never got angry with God but instead I begged for His embrace. God bless you & best wishes.
2007-07-03 07:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by foreverhoyt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss and I know it's painful to think about. I personally don't like to dweal on what has happened, yes he's gone and it's hard to move on, but if one of my kids died, yes I would be very sad and not know what to do with myself,but then I would realize that dwealling on the loss why not celebrate his life and remember all the fun times,the funny things he did and how he made you laugh,most people forget that part when someone passes,but always remember him and celebrate the fact that you got this wonderful kid and how he made you feel,because everything happens for a reason. Lets Celeabrate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think he would want you to.
2007-07-02 17:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Missy C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The pain will never go away because the love between the two of you was given to you by God and now he is back with his maker and someday you will be back together again .Look to the heavens and cry for tears are a language that only God understands and as humans we must find peace with the fact that all things happen for a reason. You are in my prayers and may God grant you Peace.
2007-07-02 17:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Larry1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. My son was 16 when he was killed 6 years ago and the pain is incredible. I wish there was some comfort I could give you, but all I really have is just some advice. Be patient. Seek counseling. Have faith that eventually life will make some sense and that you will have some purpose.
Good luck.
2007-07-02 17:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by rush.limburger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so so so sorry to hear of your loss. Nothing can replace your son...nothing. The pain will be deep for a long time -- but lessens as each day passes. It never goes away and some days the wounds will be all fresh -- but you will find the courage and strength to continue on. I have had a number of significant family losses and I find the best source of comfort is in my faith.
2007-07-02 17:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry for your loss. You must be going through such a terrible time, I truly hope and pray that you have family with you or friends that can help you through this.
I have never experienced anything like that, and I have a 25 year old son, I believe my life would stop if he died.
My prayers are with you.
2007-07-02 17:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋