your first time--- what could your partner have done to make you more comfortable/ what should he not have done that made you uncomfortable/ etc. i am experienced--she is not. crazy about her .don't want to hurt her or make her uncomfortable but unfortunately is out of my realm of exp. thanks for your honesty.
2007-07-02 17:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by say what? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weed out a couple here-I have no experience with virgins......
2007-07-02 17:22:17 · update #1
serious question here....i want it to be special for her
2007-07-02 17:47:39 · update #2
Make sure you are protected for STDs and pregnancy. Let her know that you really care for her. Every person is an individual and different. Talk about it before you are in the situation. Make it clear that you will be respectful and responsive to her feelings and wishes. Then, as long as it is mutual, let nature take its course. A sexual relationship is a relationship - built by both individuals over time. Respect, communication, and open honesty are key. Go only as far or as fast as she is psychologically, emotionally, and physically ready.
A really important thing is to be caring and affectionate after you've been together. Be loving and sweet and just as sensitive as you were at the beginning. A woman needs to know she is valued, loved, and respected. A sweet card with a personal note, and maybe a small romantic gift the next day would be a loving and appreciated gesture.
2007-07-02 17:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by curious1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself and best myself. Height-intelligent, I simply select the person to be taller than me. It's a alleviation factor I think. Penis dimension.. I've been with a fairly large man, and it harm, dangerous. I select "typical" dimension. Not too significant, now not too small. Yes there may be truthfully a factor as too small. The G spot is in a nine across the pelvic bone (if that is sensible) so it demands to arrive that. Generally, I realize such a lot men are insecure approximately that, so they are attempting more difficult in mattress, I imply this is a plus however a few stuff simply is not imperative. Your period and girth look traditional, so do not sweat it!
2016-09-05 13:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by cadejuste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very important make sure all the lights are off and it is pitch black in the room .She will enjoy it more if you can't see her.I know you guys are into visual but we women are not at least 98% of us are not plus it will make her relax more.
2007-07-02 17:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...just kiss her, and talk to her nicely...there will always be nervous at the beginning, but being gentle, talking with her, it would be easy...let her know what are you doing, when she feels comfortable, she will let you do whatever you want...ahh..and tell her how much you love her!!!
2007-07-03 12:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lali 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
During my first time my partner was very respectful and gentle with me. Any time something didn't feel right, I told him so, and he helped me out. Make sure she knows to tell you if anything doesn't feel right, and be respectful and go slow with her. Don't try to push her into anything she doesn't feel comfortable with.
2007-07-02 17:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
She'll be comfortable when she's ready and when she is, she need to give her major confidence boost. No matter who attractive a girl is, she is still self consicious about her body. Make her feel like she is the ONE for you.
2007-07-02 17:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by single_n_hopeful 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
From the questions you are asking it sounds like you are too young to be doing what you think you want to do.
2007-07-02 17:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋