*i hate being mean
*he is super nice
*he really really likes me
2007-07-02 16:12:45 · 13 answers · asked by Olivia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you is to not give him any reason to believe that yall are more than just friends. Tell him how much you value his friendship and that you really like him as a friend. If you have to bring up another guys name randomly in a conversation and say that you like him. That way he will get the hint that you like someone but its not like you are rejecting him.
2007-07-02 16:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley*Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!!
There is nothing wrong with meeting someone and not having an interest with them. I think the toughest part is actually conveying that message to the other person without hurting thier feelings. I would honestly let him know, and let him know soon. It will save you from stressing on when and how to tell him(because we all procrastinate this), also the longer we wait to do it, the more likely to be mean we might become. I would tell him straight up that you are not looking for anything romantic right now, but would like having a buddy to hang out with now and then ...
2007-07-03 14:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way... nor is there a right way. everyone is different. I would sit down and talk to him about the things i really did like about him. Like "you are an awesome friend and i really appreciate that you are always there for me, I want you to know that I will always be there for you as a friend also.... and share other things like... "what makes you so awesome is that you are super nice and fun to be around. I hope we will always be friends, and I would never want anything to ruin that.... etc.,
none of those things are lies.... nor are you playing him... obviously you care about him and respect his feelings.... so gentle truth is what i would do in your case. Gentle and loving.
2007-07-02 16:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Monique S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him you don't feel the same way as he does. Being mean is to lead him on and let him keep thinking there is more to your feelings than really is.
2007-07-02 16:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i said, there's no way to reject a guy without hurting him. so, just be honest in your words and tell him all the positive things about him like he's really nice all those stuffs. Good luck!
2007-07-02 16:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth. You don't like him. It's not mean, it's the truth. If he feels hurt, thats HIS problem. You don't have to like everyone in the world and being nice doesn't mean you have to be a door mat.
2007-07-02 16:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy do that to me in high school he really liked me used to write me letters and give me gifts but I already had a bf and he knew but didn't care and I didn't want to be mean either but he was so annoying it had to come to me being mean
2007-07-02 16:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a person or an accessory? If you're a person, stand up for yourself and how you want things to be. Just be honest and say, "I like you as a friend, but I do not want to be your girlfriend, ok?" And then change the subject, don't draw it on and on.
2007-07-02 16:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him down easy he sounds like a great guy. Let him know you only want the best for him. Let him know that he has a lot to offer, and with those words I think he will know what you are saying.
2007-07-02 16:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. Ummm...
What I would think is that you should just tell him how you really feel. Maybe he'll understand. You should always be truthful to him.
I've gone down that road before if you really don't want to be with him just tell him how you truely feel.... It'll make things better... Hopefully.
Remember follow your heart.
Good luck =]
2007-07-02 16:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋