I recently started seeing some one and we have grown to really like each other. We are starting to date now and he won't make it official that we have a "relationship" I guess. He thinks that I have walls built up and that I don't really like to tell him about things.
When he does I don't know how to answer. I'm not used to a guy WANTING to know what's on my mind and what I think about things. I don't want him to feel like I'm some one who isn't open about my life. That is definately not the case - I just want to be able to watch what I say to him because I feel that I really have found some one good for me.
I try to tell him he can ask me anything at all and I promise I will answer because I would. When will I know if he does ot not?
2007-07-02 15:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by TegLover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you need some time for pure communication between you. Take some time and just spend it learning about each others wants and desires. It could be he has been hurt or very sensitive and needs to trust you more before opening up. All subjects and questions are allowed, and the goal is to try and find common ground and understanding. Do this on a regular basis. I do it with my girl all the time and it does help. It takes time and effort to develop trust, but this is a good way to help bring it about.
2007-07-02 15:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pour out your heart and soul to him, he sounds like he really wants to know the real you. And if you want a man to talk you must start the conv.
2007-07-02 22:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time tells all...u cant force it.
just be honest with him and urself most important and nothing can go wrong =)
2007-07-02 22:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by mitlilkizbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust comes naturally over time, relax and be yourself and he will learn to trust you
2007-07-02 22:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by d L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋