Alright here goes.
So recently, I was traveling and I slept with my friend's girlfriend, who lives in a city far away from my own.
The truth is, it meant a lot more to me than just sex. This girl is absolutely incredible...smart, funny, ambitious, you name it. But obviously, she's dating one of my very good friends. The problem is, they are so completely different and so absolutely wrong for each other. I know its not my decision to make and I know that its so damn wrong but I can't seem to help loving her.
The problem is, I haven't felt this way for someone in a long time. I've been attracted to her for some time now, I just always felt this quick connection that you don't get with most people, but it really took off when we were alone. The next morning, she felt so guilty and now her actions are tapered according to that guilt. The problem is...how do I get over it? How do I forget her? Should I forget her? Help!
2007-07-02 15:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by mula012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay just for further info.
I am not a guy and this friend is not one of my best friends, just a friend. I know that still makes it wrong but I just wanted to clarify.
2007-07-02 16:30:28 · update #1
You know that feeling when you are sitting at a bar and watching some guy dance with the best gal there? Well, you are that guy at the bar sitting down. You know how that guy normally gets drunk, trys to steal the lady and ends up getting beat up? Well, that's where you are headed if you don't look down the road toward the stop sign.
It wasn't just sex to you, but obviously it was just sex to her. She isn't talking about being with you or leaving her man. She's trying to forget it ever happened. When a woman does you that way, that alone should be enough fuel to forget about her. Oh and the fact he's your FRIEND!
2007-07-02 15:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you probably will not forget the whole situation....it usually feels good when you are doing something a bit risque, however, you definitely need to move on!! It doesn't seem like the incident was premeditated, so leave it that way....if you all were meant to be, it will happen, but in good time, not forced!!
Take Care
2007-07-02 22:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by SuasGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see this from the eyes of a woman is funny only because we see it over and over again from you guys. You let yourself get caught up in something you know isn't going to work and you do it anyway.How can you call yourself a friend after what you did.You can't have this girl so you want her text 101. I can't even go on with this one sorry.
2007-07-02 22:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so the real question is; What do you value more- his friendship- or her love? That is what you have to decide, because 'best friends' are hard to come by, and he's not gonna be pleased because of you 'taking his girl' from him.
There are MANY potential girlfriends out there, but... how many 'best' friends??? Think about it. You decide.
~ Jon
2007-07-02 23:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HER....if she got with you when she already had a man, why wouldn't she cheat on you? (<--mase & 112 song) it's hard to get over someone, but go out and keep your mind occupied that way you can't think of her...you will eventually get over it, although it may take some time...good luck
2007-07-02 22:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel a spark or connection tell your friend that you like her and that you would like to date her and say i think im better for her then say can we still be friends
2007-07-02 22:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by RenjiXRukiaFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋