my girlfriends parents just made me and my girlfriend split up, but me and my girlfriend both agreed that we will wait until shes allowed to go out with me, but we figure that will take 2 years (very strict parents) im fine with the waiting part, but ive been crying for like 20 minutes because im worried she might not love me later on, and im crying so bad, please some 1 tell me what i can do to help make me stop crying or feel better, please
2007-07-02 13:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Crying's okay. It's good to get that emotional release :-)
But all I can say is... is if the love between the two of you is real, deep, and genuine, well... no amount of time passing can dissolve it. But... if it does fade, then it wasn't as deep as you imagined, or you yourself feel that it is. Positively nothing in life is guaranteed. Nothing. That is one of the facts of life- sorry to say.
So, does being forbidden to date her... means that you and she will never see one another again in other common socoal circumstances, such as in school? Is she like... 'imprisoned' or something? If not- well... all is not lost, not by a longshot. And that will make whatever moments that you and she do still have together... just that much more precious :-) Don't you think? :-]
~ Jonathan Rich
2007-07-02 13:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what she told you or did you hear it right from her parents own mouth.I'm asking you this because i don't care how strict her parents are when we girls want to date someone we will go behind their backs to be with the one we like. But if it is the case two years is a very long time to wait and i will tell you right now she won't feel the same towards you in two years. You sound really young,i won't tell you to forget about her you don't want to hear that.I am much older then you are so i think i can qualify as to tell you what i think you should do to help you feel better.And by the way i have a 25 year old son so i have been through a lot with him and girls so that qualifies me to.You won't want to do this but it does work first you will need to go around girls and flirt like you never flirted before.If you do this it will get back to your girlfriend and she will be so jealous she will call you to ask what is going on with you,you tell her you are just out having fun this will drive her crazy where she will want to be with you.Like i said if you do this right you will get your girlfriend back.By the way every time i told my son to do that it work every time.The only way to keep a girl is to make her think that she isn't the only one who wants you and if she looks away for just a minute the other girl will be right there waiting.
2007-07-02 21:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when parents do that stuff. Please, what ever you do don't let them win. See eachother as much as possible, but make it look like you're hanging out with other friends. Have a big meet with your friends and get her friends to come to so you two can see eachother. If you both love eachother, then nothing will be able to get in the way of that. Secretly date, thats what my friend is doing. She and her boyfriend have the same problem and they're getting through it. I'm sure you and your girlfriend can too.
2007-07-02 20:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay basically the same thing happened to me my junior year of high school. I snuck out to see my boy and I lost my parents trust and everything. And in the end, he dumped me less than a month after we were allowed to start seeing each other again.
I'm sorry but if you're both young enough to have your parents tell you who to date, then you're too young to be in a relationship like that. I say that you both should be open to dating other people in the meantime and if it's supposed to happen, then it will.
2007-07-02 20:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens bro, then it happens. Nuthin you can really do about it. you can remain friends and see what happens, but if she is forced to wait too, atleast there is a chance. in the mean time get over it. maybe you'll find someone you click with better and people change all the time. You and her might be completely different people by that time and you don't wanna waste two prime years feeling bad.
2007-07-02 20:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aww.. I'm sorry to hear that. either you guys make it in the end or you don't. that's the way the world works. it wouldn't hurt to TRY to move on. but if you guys were really meant to be, you'd end up together later. :) you might have to pass a few bumps on the road and probably not see each other for a while, but it should happen.
2007-07-02 20:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Chatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its going to alright. Love can over come anything. If its meant to be, it will work. And if its not, you will find that special amazing women thats perfect for you, and this girl might be the one, proove to her parents that you truely love her! And they might jus come around...
Good Luck
2007-07-02 20:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by TexAss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hav u told her how u hav felt?..if so does she feel the same way? if both of u truly love each other, then there's no doubt that u guys will get bak 2gether..but if i were u i wuld secretly go out with her w/o her parents finding out...
2007-07-02 20:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by heRshEy kiSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her cell number and call her every night or text message or e-mail.there are ways to talk to her without her parents knowing.
(AWWWWW a guy is crying over a girl. that doesn't happen often)HOW SWEET!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-02 20:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and cry, you will stop long before 2 years
2007-07-02 20:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by tx1942txx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋