I thought a guy liked me. Since I'm so shy I never really spoke to him. I thought he was therefore giving me little "presents" to show that he liked me. I was wrong about everything. It was all in my head. He has a girlfriend and never liked me. He and a bunch of his co-workers found out the way I thought. I want to die of embarrassment. Help?
2007-07-02 13:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by mariablues 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to heck with all of em. Stay single.
2007-07-02 13:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, move on. It'll be ok. Find someone else, he probably did like you, physically and once he found out how you felt it all came out. We all get embarrassed, make light of it, embrace the whole incident openly. Then again, that's Just My View!
After reading, I remember. I was in the same situation. I had just been dumped by my bf of 7 yrs and I was cool w/a guy on my job and i subconciously went to him for comfort. He fed me w/ what my emotions needed at that time and I thought he was sincere, our co-workers knew how we felt for one another but what I didn't know was that he had a long term girlfriend and only wanted me physically. You know I had to cut him off quickly, I was embarrassed yes, but I got over it b/c I saw he wasn't worth my time.
2007-07-02 20:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was giving you 'little presents' I submit that he 'likes' you.
Further, it doesn't seem as serious as you are making it. Or maybe I don't know the meaning of the word 'like'.
At any rate - chin-up, chest out, Hut! 2,3,4. Fix yourself a drink (7-up, if you are under age!) and get on with your hopeful, wholesome life. As they say in Pamplona, "Buena ventura".
2007-07-02 20:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are so bored in there own lives that they have to mock and tease other people, to make themselves feel important. Hold your head, high and don't let them get to you, because before you know it they will be harassing and teasing other people.
All of us make mistakes at some point of our lives, that embarrass us and we must stay strong and move forward.
2007-07-02 20:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel less stupid when you've learned from your experience. Next time you won't be so shy, when you're interested in a guy you'll have the power to just ask if he's seeing anyone.
2007-07-02 20:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by scott.braden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just laugh it all off and be like "god some people are so immature."
then find a cute guy that maybe you're friends with and ask him to do u a favor...go into work one day and forget something and have him come in and be like "hey babe u forgot this" and u can be like "aw my hero" and hug him and pretend hes ur bf.
i know thats like totally immature but they'll respect you more.
2007-07-02 20:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by *marisa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he gave you presents? If so, he does like you and was probably going behind his gf back. Don't be embarassed by it. But if it keeps going around with his coworkers, I would set them straight as to the "presents" you were getting.
2007-07-02 20:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by animal lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to most of us. So, you made a mistake. Just laugh it off or ignore it. No human being is perfect, so why should you expect perfection of yourself?
2007-07-02 20:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, i know how u feel. once i liked this one guy and it turns out he already had a girl friend. i actually told the guy that i liked brother 2 tell the guy that i like that i like him
2007-07-02 20:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we've all been there. it's truly difficult to be open with our feelings. it's even harder to feel like others are making fun at our expense. but be assured you're ok and will see another day.
2007-07-02 20:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a different job there isnt anything to make you feekl better, just because he has a girlfriend doesnt mean he doesnt like you...
2007-07-02 20:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by alexis_vallin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋