Hi. I am currently 15 years old. My family and I went to an airshow at an airforce base two yrs ago, and it had a stand representing the Civil Air Patrol. I had been wanting to join the air force ever since I was about 11.
My dad, an air force veteran, noticed my enthusiasm and encouraged me to join. At age 12, when I was old enough, I asked my mom and she prohobited me from joining because she used to be in the air force too and said it was 'no place for women." But this is my passion. She even lied to me and told me thst my dad didn't want me to do it (even though he was actually excited and supportive of me).
My mother is very narotic and my parents fight constantly. Please don't comment on her, as it would take too long to explain. trust me. Now, at 15, I have an unstoppable passion to join. I Ordered an information packet, and my dad is right there with me. I AM going to join. How will I handle my dad letting me and my mom not when it comes time to sign up?
2007-07-02 13:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Things have changed since your mom was in. Be patient, stick to your beliefs, and when you're 18, follow your heart. Odds are, when the deed is done, she will be as proud of you as your dad.
2007-07-02 13:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by MotherBear1975 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Sit them down and talk to both of them at the same time! Ask your mom why she doesn't want you to join the CAP. Also, ask why she doesn't feel the Air Force or military is not good for women. Things have changed for women in the military. GRANTED, not to the point that all areas are open to women, but women are able to serve in a lot more roles than they use to. Besides, you aren't talking about the military, but CAP. Just like with JROTC in high school, not all that were in the JROTC actually go on to serve in the military. CAP, just like JROTC, can provide leadership skills and other values that will serve you well whether you join the military or not.
With them both there, there is no room to skirt the matter. No more games on your part or their part. Present your case and reasons for wanting to join, and be prepared for their answer to be different than what you want to hear.
I hope this helps, and Good luck!
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2016-09-28 23:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is possible, get your mother EDUCATED on flight. The calm logical approach would be best. If you can get her actually into a small craft and let her experience the joy of flight, you will have a strong ally in your desired endeavor. You and Dad could spring for an intro 'flight lesson' for her, where she can actually handle the controls. She might feel better being 'in control' as she is probably a 'control freak' to some degree. She would have an instructor right there beside her if things went hairy!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-07-02 13:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the same response from my mom when I joined the ARMY. she cried and asked me "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?" But the day I graduated from Basic training she was sooo proud. I believe if that is something you truly what to do. Then go for it! The military has changed so much from when your mother was in. Women are just as strong as men mentally. Just believe in yourself and you'll do great. Stick with it and don't get distracted on the little things.
2007-07-02 13:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by crazyrain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and I'm kind in the same position. I really want to go to the Air Force Academy for college. I've wanted to do this for about 5 years now and my dad completely supports it. My mom hates the thought of me going. When I get older I want to be astronaut and I have done my research and I really think this is the best way to go. I have told my mom this and she just doesn't seem to understand. She doesn't want me to go because she thinks as soon as I graduate they will send me to Iraq and I'm going to die. I have decided that it's my life and not hers. If I want to achieve the goals that I have set for myself I'm going to have to do it the way I think is best. My advice for you is to do what your heart tells you. If you think that going the CAP is right, then do it.
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."- Eleanor Roosevelt
Good luck in everything that you do!
2007-07-02 15:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by ftrastronaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAP has no contract and has no obligation to serve. even if your mother dosent like the idea of your serving, or even if you do not end up serving, this would be a Great tool for you in life.
good luck! your mom will come around. inveite her to some meetings.
2007-07-06 05:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kevy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm sounds like you are playing daddy vs. mommy and only need one signature to join.
If I were your Dad, I'd support you but not in the game you're playing, which would mean I wouldn't sign.
You need to quit playing that game and they need to stop allowing you to. CAP is a great program but I don't like your game.
2007-07-02 13:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by John T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a minor and you are living under your parents roof. I suggest you follow their rules. If your mom says no then the answer is no. You will have to wait.
2007-07-02 13:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you can not join till you are 18 yera old and you have grad from high school . like i said when you become 18 they can not stop you from joining cause you are a adult
2007-07-02 13:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋