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I asked out a girl that works with me and we are going to the movies on Friday. Any tips would be appreciated.

2007-07-02 12:22:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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tell her ya gotta go to the bathroom, go there wait a minute or so, gotta prepare yourself, remember dont take any risks, you come outta that bathroom blastin, ya put one in her head, and walk away, ya cant run, walk fast keep ya head down, hold your hand out to your side and let the gun slip out, noone will know ya dropped, you get outta there with noone on ya back and then youre gonna have to go to sicily for while till thing cool down... and that is a sucssesful date

2007-07-02 12:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depending on how well you know here......definately no matter what listen to the first person that answered. Movies suck for first dates though because you can't talk. If you need to get to know her, come up with something more creative, nice dinner, maybe a quiet bar, putt putt, or something (be more original than that) where the two of you can talk. If you are the shy quiet kinda guy then a movie may be good, give you something to talk about later. If you already know her well, a movie is ok, but make sure to still go somewhere for dinner that you can talk to her. Be confident but not cocky, compliment her but not too much, and don't get hammered if you do drink with her. Don't push to hard to make a move, trust me, she will if she wants to.....or at least give you an indication that it is ok. Don't be cheap, spend the money, but don't try to appear like you have more than you do, she knows because she works with you. This is what works for me when I take a girl out, but just make sure you treat her with respect. (oh, and if she tries to make a move, let her, but try and not jump her right away)

2007-07-02 19:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by jhill3780 1 · 0 0

the best thing to do is to open a dialogue with her. This will build trust between you and her. Best way to do that is to take her to a coffee shop either before the movie or after the movie and treat her to her favorite and all, with the only intent of starting a conversation with her.

Talk about everything and anything . don't hold back whatsoever in the conversation either. Let her speak and listen to her words as to what to say or talk about next.

Be friendly, kind, and compassionate and treat her like she is your best friend , even on the first date. Keep it relaxed too, don't go all out and get dressed up and all either... make it a casual dress thing..

Oh, and one more thing... DO NOT TALK ABOUT WORK... that will be a big relief too, for her..

2007-07-02 19:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0 0

You pay. Buy her, her own, popcorn and drink. Hold the doors for her. Let her pick the seats. And if she sits real close to you and lets her leg press against yours, she probably likes you enough for you to put an arm around her or hold her hand. Ask if it is ok to walk her to the door and kiss her goodnight. And if you say you'll call her, then call and set up the next date. Have a great time! And no sex on the first date...that is tacky and if it doesn't work out, remember you still have to work with her.

2007-07-02 19:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by lynzen 2 · 0 0

1) I hope you don't love your job, because dating your coworkers is a great way to have to find a new job soon.

2) Movie dates aren't very good first dates. You're looking at a screen, not the other person. Try to work in coffee before or after at least.

2007-07-02 19:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

don't talk during the movie. i have that habit and it nearly killed the date i was on. i will need to be more careful about that. take cash in case she wants snacks. ask her where she likes to sit. pay attention to the previews for possible movies you can take her to in the future. (dont automatically suggest any of those movies right after the previews, wait until later on in the date when you are sure there is a chance for a second date)

2007-07-02 19:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by heylisten 2 · 0 0

Be a gentleman! That is always the most important thing! Be nice and respectful. Oh and make sure you are taking her to a movie that she will like. I have made mistakes in that area before. Not good.

2007-07-02 19:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 0 0

buy her tickets and see what food she wants and buy that too. open doors for her and be nice to her, don't be afraid to talk to her after the movie, maybe take her for some ice cream maybe even do dinner before hand if she's interested. flowers would be a nice gesture, it'd show her you've put some thought into the date.

2007-07-02 19:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0 0

I am Optimus Prime and we are the Autobots we hide among the humans now watching out for them. I send this message out to any remaining autobots that might still be alive. Remember we are more than meets the eye.

2007-07-03 10:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be attentive, but not fake! Make sure that at some point after she has told you something she finds important, you bring the conversation back to that topic. And be smart about it! Any woman will be able to tell if you are being disingenuous!

2007-07-02 19:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by foodlover 3 · 0 0

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