Simply take her hand and walk her elsewhere, while watching your back in case he gets physical?
2007-07-02 12:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by Psychicpotato 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick some ***, don't be a pansy little girl, she will probably leave you if you don't fight for her.
2007-07-02 12:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Spider J 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Walk up to her and give her a kiss and ask her if she missed you while you were gone. Most guys will walk away without saying a word. And if your worried about some guy getting physical with you just because of that , Then take some martial arts classes and learn to defend yourself and the one you love....
2007-07-02 19:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should let the guy know that she's not available. If the guy backs off then no problem...if he keeps coming on to her then her boyfriend should step up and ask the guy to move on.
There's no reason to assume someone is going to "get physical" unless he's implied he wants to fight. At that point, you notify the club's security and let them take care of it.
2007-07-02 19:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that's definately a good idea. Either that or walk up to your girlfriend and put your arms around her to let him know that she's taken. Guys will always hit on girls at clubs, even if she's with someone, just let them know in a nice manner, that she's yours and you're not sharing.
2007-07-02 19:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some dude is going to hit you in a club over your chick? Find a different club then.
When a dude would hit on my chick, I'd just stand next to her while she hugged me and smile that "I own you jackass" smile at him. Most guys will go away after that.
2007-07-02 19:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment that someone else finds her as attractive as you do. Unless you *know* that he *knows* that she's your girlfriend, don't assume that he was intentionally horning in on your relationship.
It's best to politely let him know "she's with me," then leave (with her) gracefully. If he makes a scene, that's what they've got bouncers for, right?
Also, please, don't put any "blame" on her for his approach - unless you actually saw AND heard her flirting with him or leading him on. It's entirely possible, maybe even probable, that his approach was completely unprovoked by her.
2007-07-02 19:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by tanibk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u do is tell the guy who is hitting on her that she is taken but really you shouldnt have 2 do anything becuse if ur gf is true 2 u then she will walk away on her own.
2007-07-02 19:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get physical, how cool do you look like when you get violent because you couldn't take the social pressure? Let him talk to her, if you firmly believe that you are that guy that has swept her off her feet, she'll stick to you. be confident of yourself and your abilities to keep your GF attracted to you.
Vo.
2007-07-02 19:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Haikin L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes... If he asks why you took her then just tell him in a none violent way that she is your girl and that she is off limits. If he get physical just walk away... the bouncer will get rid of him.
2007-07-02 19:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not repeat the same things which guys has already done because then there will be no difference between them and me.
I prefer(fight or fly) "fly" then "fight" that is a wise decision.
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2007-07-02 19:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Ari 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds perfect. And maybe whisper to her not to worry and to follow. Cause she will prob be a little freaked out.
2007-07-02 19:20:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋