im a single mum and i keep meeting the wrong men.....im losing hope that i will ever meet mr.decent.?

Question

does having a child freak all men out and make them treat me differently??

Answer 1

its not just that, its the fact that most men have little confidence and self-confidence that they can't approach you.

Mr.decent is the guy who won't approach you who holds his drink up to his face constantly drinking and waiting at the side of the bar for someone hot to come in which they can stare at all day never approaching the girl.

Vo.

Answer 2

Hi Mum! Why are you settling for Mr. Decent? You deserve Mr. Right (in all respects)! When it comes to love, NEVER SETTLE. It's been my experience that yes, men will definitely become uneasy about children. Look at the men you have met and determine what's exactly happening. Should you be looking at this at a different angle or approach? I'm sure there's a guy out there that you are overlooking....don't try so hard! Good Luck!

Answer 3

no but if you have a child they know at one point and time you were sexually active, so basically they are probably looking for sex, you don't want to get into the habit of dating alot of men especially when you are a single parent, you want to make sure that you are setting a great example. You have a full time job just being a single mum. Enjoy the time with your child, plenty of time for romance as the child gets older

Answer 4

I would love 2, but I haven't been lucky yet. I got in touch with some 2 chics from here, exchanged photos and phone numbers but the only huddle was the geographical locations. One was from the States, the other was from the UK, and am in Australia. Things couldn't work out. Otherwise, if I met a serious one preferably here in Australia, I would definitely respect her and do whatever it would take to sustain that relationship.

Answer 5

You're not looking in the right places. Where would single dads be? At the ballpark, soccer field, at church, community functions, art festivals, etc. There are lots of men who would love to have you and your child, but you have to use your brain to look in the right places. School functions are great. Send out your sensors right away--see the look on his face when he sees your child--is he pleased or displeased? At the first sign he's not being respectful and genuine with both you and your child, find someone else.

Answer 6

People treat you the way you treat yourself. If you sit down with yourself, you will come to realize that the issue is not with the men that you choose. The issue is with YOU and how you view and see yourself. Your issue is with your self worth on the inside, in your heart. You show men how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. So, you need to do the changing first, and then you will attract the right kind of men that you desire. All the best.

Answer 7

no , personally having a child wouldn't put me off. I think what may be happening is you are looking for a man. this gives off signals and the only men that see them are the ones just after a "good time". what you need to do is try and find "friends" and Mr right Will probably come from that. good luck.

Answer 8

Here's the trick..

Find a guy with a child of the same gender and age, with a wife that died in an accident (rather than having left him).

So he's not a jerk because the wife didn't leave him and he'd love a prospective partner to have a kid that will get along with his kid and so keep themselves occupied.

I'm not sure dating services go into this level of detail. My wife's still alive and I'm not planning on finishing her off, sorry.

Answer 9

im a single mum, and yes for some reason it does, but why are you looking for some one? and if the man cant except you child dont ever except him! dont let a man make you feel unwanted because you have a child. if he doesnt like it he knows where to go. plus wait and the man you want will come to you, you dont need a man any way, your better off with out one, no offence lads :D

Answer 10

there it is right there Mr. decent. you have no standards you are just willing to settle for less than Mr right. Dont settle. who cares, if you meet a man and it freaks him out you have a kid you know hes definitely not the one for you. You child or children come first. You need someone who will accept both you and your children. Dont look for it someone is out there asking the same question you are you just havent run into him yet. Pray, God has someone out there for you..until then focus on you and your kids happiness. good luck.