Ive been talkin to this egyptian guy on the internet for period of time now.We exchanged pictures and we had great conversations.The first thing he keeps tellin me is that he wants to marry me, he loves me and my kids and he is willin to come to canada to visit me.I keep wondering to myself if this guy is really serious about me and my kids.But the worst is that he dont really speaks english well.I really want a good and loving guy in my life.Should i take the chance and see wat happens.
2007-07-02 10:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by bootylicious j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel the same about him take your time and he can learn the English language I am sure .
2007-07-02 10:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say "a period of time" ...well, depending on what that means, you could just keep exchanging conversation and IM and emails...once that 'period of time" is long enough to trust someone with your children....How Long is that? Six months? A year? Keep talking to him on the 'net. When you feel it's right and absolutely ready...you won't have to ask anyone! you'll just know! If you don't KNOW right now...then it's too soon.
Based on results...based on your having to ask in here...you have your doubts so I say, it's probably too soon. ...you are a smart woman. You just wanted someone to tell you you were right and not being dumb or making the wrong decision.
Hold off. and when it feels right and you totally trust this guy, THEN and ONLY then...meet him. and NOT with your kids! Not the first time.
Sound good?
2007-07-02 10:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by laughterhealingneworleans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very careful. Only last week was a item on television where a woman who had an internet relationship was being ripped off and involved in fraud, by the guy who was supposed to be coming out to meet her.
He sent money orders, which she cashed and sent him the money, only to have them being fakes. So they are after her for the money, and of course he never came out. And worse thing was, she wasn't the only one he had doing this.
It is a very common scam, so if he starts to ask for your help with something like that, please be very careful.
The other thing to watch is the whole "Green Card" thing.
2007-07-02 10:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know something weird? Well, I've chatted with a few men from Africa online.... and they always say things like that..... how can he love you and your kids.... you two don't even really know each other like that. He doesn't know what he's talking about. I think you should stop talking to him. He wants to marry you too?? Ohhh noooo, giiiirl no! Don't pay that any attention.
2007-07-02 10:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be looking for relationships on line. I dont understand you people. I would not trust ANYONE i meet online how do you know he doesn't want to go to Canada and rape and kill you and your children. You cant be so desperate that your looking for love online.
2007-07-02 10:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Don't trust guys like him. They always say they love you and you're beautiful and all that even before they see your picture and stuff like that. He just wants a visa...Is he younger than you?
2007-07-02 10:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by The baby penguin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances are he will make a good husband and keep you happy
2007-07-02 10:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by gangico 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋