a guy you once knew just showed up for one last shot at your love!!!
2007-07-02 10:26:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It would depend on the circumstances. My first marriage was to a man I didn't really love(I was in love with someone else) and I married him for different reasons. All the way down the aisle I looked for him in the church pews and throughout the wedding I kept hoping he would show up and object. As it turns out he intended to, but do to problems he didn't get to town until a couple of days later. This time around though I am in love with the man of my dreams and my true soul mate so if someone showed up I would be devastated that he ruined my wedding and nothing could ever make up for that. If this is something you or someone you know is planning on doing I would recommend that he talk to her before the wedding to see if she still has any feelings for him. If she doesn't then just let it be.
2007-07-02 19:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be touching in the movies (under the right circumstances, where it doesn't seem silly or contrived), but that's about it. I doubt this happens very often in real life and I doubt the few, if any, brides it happens to are at all pleased. If this ever did happen to me (which it won't, as I'm married already) I would not feel happy about it. My reaction would be something like "I've been dating this man for years, engaged to him for almost a year. I'm minutes away from marrying him and you think NOW is the appropriate time to tell me that you can't live without me??" An action like this seems more selfish than loving, unless this is one of those movies where the bride really loves the other person and is marrying someone horrible so the man she really loves can ruin her wedding without the audience feeling bad about it. It just smacks of a sudden desire for "the one that got away" when an old flame starts showing interest in a bride shortly before her wedding.
2007-07-02 10:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Demon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married (and divorced unfortunately) and I will tell you, if the guy I had been pining for crashed my wedding, I probably would have run off with him that moment.
However...
If it's someone long forgotten, or just some creep that was obsessing over me after I had made it quite clear that I was over him and in love with another man, I'd be PISSED OFF.
If you are planning on doing this, talk to the girl before the wedding! If there is some glimmer of hope, it will be there before she walks down the aisle- once she has that bouquet in hand, it may be too late- even if she still loves you.
2007-07-02 10:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with the man of my dreams and my future husband for eternity... I love this guy with all my heart and he shows his love for me as well. . . If someone were to stop our wedding.. I might jjust faint, right there at the alter. Then, when I came too I would beat the crap outta that person. I've been waiting all my life for a guy like this and I would hurt anyone who ever interrupts my wedding day!!!
2007-07-02 12:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day I was married (now divorced) I waited for a certain someone to come and stop the wedding. It is horrible to admit but when I exited the limo to enter the church, I can still remember (17 years ago) looking all along the street searching for his face. I'll always wonder what might have been. Hope this helps.
2007-07-02 10:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey's uncle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be horrified. Mortified. Pissed. Disrespected. If a guy waits 'til the middle of her wedding ceremony, he's not doing it for love anymore -- he's doing it out of aggression. That guy knows his chances are miniscule, if not outright non-existent, so he's really doing it so that she will never be able to remember her wedding without remembering him, too. A final "F.U." on his part that will be etched in her memory forever.
If said guy feels like he HAS to tell her before she ties the knot, for God's sake, talk to her a week before, hell, even a day before. But don't ruin the day she has been dreaming about all of her life, in which she and her family have invested much time and energy. Not cool.
2007-07-02 11:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very tacky and unlike the movies the guy would not end up with the girl. If you know she is engaged and happily with someone else, why do you feel the need to ruin the happiest day of her life so you can profess your love which you were to chicken to share before her wedding day.
2007-07-02 10:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by karenlanea2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably beat the crap out of him. If he has wanted me so badly, he shouldn't have let me go in the first place, and even then, waiting for the girl's wedding day to pull some kind of crap like that is just upsetting, and shows selfishness, not love.
2007-07-02 12:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think I was in a movie…or a crazy dream. Seriously I would be upset with the guy for ruining my wedding. Unless I was in love with him too…but I would think if that was the case I wouldn’t be marring some other guy
2007-07-02 10:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by always_sweet_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to take a hike! I am marrying the man I love and the last thing I need is him ruining my wedding!!
2007-07-02 10:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋