My dad has been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I would like to throw him an elegant party with all of his closest friends and family. Any ideas on how to phrase the invitations? It will be a cocktail party--outdoors-- in August....Thanks
2007-07-02 09:18:26 · 6 answers · asked by Bunkydarl 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
That would be "invitations". That's what you get when you don't proof read. lol
2007-07-02 09:19:48 · update #1
Come to a Celebration of Mr-------'s Life. Recent developments have led us to host a roast honoring this great human being..........RSVP, and then explain the situation of health. Ask quests to bring items or letters or photos that cover his life and how he has impacted theirs as the gifts.
2007-07-02 09:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's nice of you to do it for your dad...I suggest not only sending paper "invitations", but personally calling each person and explaining the real reason for the party. I assume that all the persons invited are aware of the situation. You need to make sure they understand the reason for the get-together. Also, your dad needs to understand what you're doing, and that some guests who come might make unkind remarks, or don't realize what is going on with your dad. You might even want to have a little discussion with the family, or a small group of friends before the social event, and hash out what needs to be done. I went to a family reunion recently. It was really for a relative who was dying of lung cancer, and he wanted a final get-together, so it was politely called a family reunion. He enjoyed it immensely, and lots of photos were taken. I also suggest photos of the family/friends with him, and have this all recorded for family genealogy. He will like being remembered like that. I like the elegant party idea, with probably his favorite foods served, and maybe his favorite photos displayed. Be sure to have a final photo of all his friends and relatives framed for his last days, so he can look at it.
2007-07-02 09:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kernykaley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have been told they have this many months or years and end up living way past that!!
As far as invites. Why not just say "you're invited to a party honoring (insert name)" You don't have to go into detail, as those around you probably know the situation.
Sorry about what you and your family are going through. Have a great party!
2007-07-02 09:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by sarahbeth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, i'd make sure your dad is okay with this. he may not like the idea of his friends saying their farewells. sorry, but it may make him think that way. if he's on board with the idea, just invite people to a dinner party or what ever type of get together it is. details aren't necessary as his closest family and friends will already know what's going on. if someone calls and asks what the dinner is for, you can fill them in then.
all my best to your dad. i hope he has a good time.
2007-07-02 13:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but does your Dad know about your plans? This is a very delicate situation and you should discuss your plans with him. Let him have some input in this.
2007-07-02 11:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something positive, like "Come celebrate LIFE with (his name), friends and family!"
2007-07-02 09:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by mrs sexy pants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋