i feel like my boy friend is using me and yet im still with him . he doesnt even rub my foot and i love that so much.
2007-07-02 09:09:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has he bought himself anything expensive lately? New drums, car, things like that? If he continues this path of being a sociopath, dump him on the side of the road. Tell him your needs and desires and ask him if he is going to fulfil them or not.
2007-07-02 09:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by davew/ad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is using you then he most likely is. I love foot massages too and any man I was with would have to be prepared to do that occasionally! You are not an idiot at all, you just want to be in a realtionship with someone that cares for you. Theres nothing wrong with that. Keep your eyes open, you never know who you might meet! Open your mind to the possibilty that you should have the love you truly deserve and that you won't settle for second best.
2007-07-02 09:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation well enough to say whether or not it's idiotic, however not rubbing your feet has nothing to do with someone using you.
If you feel you are being used, discuss it with the other person or move on. Nobody can use you unless you let them...if you choose to let them, then no point in complaining about it.
2007-07-02 09:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a ignorant idiot.
He is using you. But i understand where your coming from, you love him so much you'll still do anything for him even though he is doing you wrong.
Just tell him how you feel.. And if he don't understand then it's over.
2007-07-02 09:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he doesn't rub your foot, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care or that he's using you. Why on earth would you think that? Guys need a lot of prodding to get them to do what you want. ;) I know my boyfriend isn't exactly "Mr. Romantic" but it doesn't mean he doesn't care about me. It just means I have to hint a little more to get the romantic gestures I want. Try hinting at it more if you like it.
Hope that helps.
2007-07-02 09:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think your boyfriend is using you then he probably is. You said he doesn't rub your feet, have you ever ask him to rub them? I don't think you're an idiot, I think you're just naive. Do you love this guy? or Is it physical attraction?
2007-07-05 04:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kapeash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub your foot?
nevermind
if you think he is using you then dump him
there is probably someone better out there
2007-07-02 09:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by gabbygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that feeling then your right.
Find someone with a foot fetish and live a happy life
2007-07-02 09:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. i would need more information, but from what it sounds like is that you still have feelings for him. I would say thtat the best thing is to talk it out with him and see what is view of the situation is.
2007-07-02 09:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by hey123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep sounds pretty much like your an idiot if you think your being used and putting up with it.
2007-07-02 09:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋