I have a Facebook account, as I am a college student. I am 20, and will be a junior. As the end of the summer rolls around, I get fifty million "Friend Requests" from people I don't know, usually incoming freshmen, and I politely decline. I've already had my first friend request of this summer. I asked if we knew each other, and she said no. But we sent a couple messages back and forth, and she seems sincere. She even said I'm "pretty cute". She's attractive, as well. We live in the same state, but an hour away. Should I wait until the fall to meet her? Or should I be ultra aggressive and ask if she wants to meet up sometime this summer? I don't want to scare her off, as we've only messaged a few times... Thanks!
I just don't want her to become "un-single"...haha. As my love life is relatively slow...
2007-07-02 08:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she seems interested...why wait, summer time is great for meeting new people, your still young, so dont be afraid to step out of your boundries and take a chance, what do you really have to lose? good luck!!! AND REMEMBER YOU CAN NEVER HAVE TOO MANY FRIENDS!!!!
2007-07-02 09:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think being "ultra aggressive" is such a good idea unless she's into that sorta thing. But I think it'd be a good idea to make it fairly clear that you're interested and that you would love to meet up with her. That way she will also stay interested and not think that there's no chance with you. If you pose the suggestion to meet in a way where she has the choice of meeting either before school or when school starts, she won't feel pressured and get scared away.
2007-07-02 09:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you can try and see her this summer, you'll have less time during the school year. Don't worry about her thinking you too aggressive. After all, she's the one who started speaking to a st anger!
2007-07-02 09:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by leira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested ask - if she says no be nice about it. If she says yes - don't act clingy and make her not want a second date.
Just go out and have fun.
2007-07-02 09:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Collette L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to ask !
2007-07-02 09:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to go somewhere with you !!
2007-07-02 09:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_manzana_verde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋