I had a minor argument with a guy i was seeing for about 2 months.. i really liked him,he liked me... while i was giving him time to cool off, i had a very traumatic experience with my family and became phsycially ill for almost a month.. my "best friend" came to stay with me because i like far from home for grad school... i in bed and taking alot of pills... she suggested i email that guy, so i gave her my pw and she said she's write him an apology note.. unknown to me, she went haywire, sending him all these crazy emails.. i find out later she sabatoged me because she had one nighter with him years ago..(sounds like a movie, i know).. she also used my pw to buy stuff of ebay and amazon.. she just confessed to one of our other friends.. he's never going to believe me, but it's true :( i'm pressing charges for the theft, if i show him the police report,etc.. do you think he'd believe me? i'm not desperate, but i'd hate to lose someone over this b.s.
2007-07-02 08:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by noway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think you need to find another bf. Just for the fact that he was with your crazy friend would do it for me. Let him go and move on. Get the charges on the girl, but really get rid of the guy too. It's a blessing in disguise that this happened, because he also sounds a bit high strung. Good luck!
2007-07-02 08:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Devika P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi noway,
It's good to know you are feeling better. This sounds like a horrible experience to have had, on top of an illness.
Unless the guy is very understanding, and has been determined to communicate with you, I think it is best to leave things alone.
Do you honestly want to come across with paperwork proof? After this guy received countless emails and who knows what else, do you want to come at him with "evidence"? It will be overwhelming for this guy and you may just come across as overly dramatic.
Unless you had a tremendously strong relationship, unless you are just willing to completely throw yourself at this man's mercy, I just do not think it is worth it. You will be much healthier and happier if you cut your losses and move forward.
Best of luck to you ~
2007-07-02 08:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is GOOD LUCK and that you will need it very much. And its the right thing on pressing charges. I had a friend do it to me as well. but not the guy thing. IM srry to hear about your problems and I hope you get better and get him back. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-07-02 08:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Bowling_diva_21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you like you think he does he will understand and be with you but if he cant understand what happend to you and all and dosent believe you then thats not someone you really need in your life think about it someone that doenst believe you an all best of luck
2007-07-02 08:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should explain it to him just like you did to us and tell him you'll show him the proof. tell him if he doesn't want to work it out you understand, but you wanted him to know that it wasn't you that sent the nasty emails. that's really all you can do. it's worth a shot.
2007-07-02 08:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say extricate yourself from this incestous group of friends and make some new ones!
2007-07-02 08:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Whiskey Tango Foxtrot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you show him, he'll believe you because something like this is just terrible.
2007-07-02 08:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Good for somethin' 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him and talk to him.
2007-07-02 08:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋