Ok, so i like my best friends ex, she likes me, he likes her a bit, she hates his guts. She wants to go out with me, my friend keeps saying i should ask her out, but i know inside hed be disappointed. They havent been out for like 6 months, and they havent spoken in ages. He syas he wouldnt mind me goinout with her, and she wants to go out with me. She hates him loads. Does that make sense? Anyway, what do you guys think?
2007-07-02 08:49:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think it will bother him dont risk it! Plus having a girlfriend who hates your best bud will be a pain in the a** in the future, TRUST ME. This WILL create tension, drama, and will leave one of them (if not both) upset with you. Remeber the golden rule: bro's before hoes.
2007-07-02 08:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a small school and you are 100% sure your friend won't be pissed, go for it. Girls around my neck of the woods date their friends exes all the time, it's like a switch thing. I've seen girls literally switch boyfriends. Course when your school averages 32 people per class, you honestly don't have many options. However, if you go to a big school, I'd suggest you not go for it. Much bigger dating pool and your friend might be a tad pissed since that kind of thing doesn't happen as often in the city as it does in the countryside.
2016-05-21 03:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea! Especially if yu kno he still likes her &she's his ex & she hates his guts. Yu don't want someone tht hates Yur best friend bc trust me they will try to keep yu from him just so they can have yu all to their self, not to mention tht she would ruin the friendship the two of yu have. Now on the other hand put Yur self in his position & really give it some thought, would yu want him doing tht to yu even if yu told him it was ok? He's probably bot mad but a little worried tht y'all might be coming to a end bc yu even asked tht question. Don't do.it unless yu want yalls friendship to be over with. If she's moving from him to his best friend she must be a hoe.
2015-04-06 17:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's okay with you going out with her and you like her and the feelings mutual on her part. Then go out with her. Don't tell your friend how your dates are though when he asks. Just say it was nice, and leave it at that. And if the girl asks how your friend is doing, do the same. You don't want to divulge anything about the other to either one of them. This is about you and the girl now, nothing else. Good luck!
2007-07-02 08:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Devika P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need anyone to tell you the answer to this one.Though your BEST FRIEND says it is okay for you to date his ex, he is actually disappointed that you would even ask him .Ask your self the following questions:1)what if the shoe was on the other foot;how will you feel2)when did you start talking to his ex about dating her and both your feelings3)if your best friend spoke to you about the problems he had with her prior to the break-up,what was your advice to him?was it self-serving?4)are you still his best friend and does the friendship matter to you or are you willing to let it go to be with his ex?5) you know he still likes her , so what do you want him to do about his feelings while you go out with his ex that he still loves; I am sure you now see that this is not as simple as I like her and she likes me.While I can understand that we don't always control whom we develop feelings for,I would definitely advice you against going out with this lady; for all the complications I mentioned above, unless of course,you are willing to sacrifice your best friend for his ex. Besides , if she is willing to date her ex-boyfriends best friend ,would she not be willing to date your best friend if and when you become the ex?Worth thinking about.
2007-07-02 09:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you, and you like her, you should go out. That's the bottom line. Make sure she isn't just wanting to date you because your her ex's best friend and it would be revenge, possibly make him jealous. As long as her intention are good, I say go for it!
2007-07-02 10:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chicoaa20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Your feeligns for her are not betrayel towards your friend. It's just the way love works. You're lucky to have a friend understanding enough to give you the go-sign. So, what are you waiting for? Start your engines!
2007-07-02 08:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait....if you really like your friend... wait till he will be fine with it..... you'll know... cause it will cost your friendship.with him.. for what a date with some chic....just. wait... I've seen it first hand to a couple of my friends 1 dating the others ex girl... not a happy home they share a house together.... so wait ....if you want to keep your friend
2007-07-02 08:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the quickest way to loose a friend is to date there ex.
2007-07-02 08:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2007-07-02 08:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Eric S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋